Newly Married - Questions about Intimacy!

Re: Not enough Sex

hi dear,yup i can understand wat u r feeling,but just wanna ask why dont u ask him to reduce watching **** ,i mean may b he watches **** n gets himslf satisfied by watching or masturbation n thats y he isnt intersted in havng intercourse with u.u said he turns on while watchng pon so what does he do after that,sorry if i sound v rude r......but men feel satisfied after ejaculation.wat i can understand is,his habit of watchng **** is hindering ur way to happy married life.thats all i can say.

 

Re: Not enough Sex

U cannot conclude that he is having an affair;; Talk to him and find out if he is stressed because of his job or some other reason; Persuade him to take off and go out on a holiday;; If things dont improve try to seek the help of a counseller or a psychiatrist

 

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i am also suffering from same problem but when i asks him he says that "no no u may get pregnant".i also asked him we will some contraceptive pills but he says no. i feel very depressed when he does oral sex but i need intercourse.

i am a mother of 2 year kid.i know about the feel of intercourse i need it but he never understand to know my feeling.

 

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dear op,

how old is your husband? is it because of long years, he lost interest in ic or it may due to work pressures also.

find out from him why he is not interested in it...only finding exact cause can we give proper remedy...

it is better to plan for vacation so that the environment will be one of relaxation...

probably practising kamasutras tips may help to some extent...if you are interested you can read kamasutra book or any other appropriate book and follow tips in it...

best of luck...

 

Re: Not enough Sex

Hi Seren

There is a thread started by Praks. Your case is similar to her to some extent. Maybe you can have a look at it.

All the best

 

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This made very interesting reading though unconventional relationships in quad - Polyamory.com Forum

Nandita

 

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Seren, why not start watching **** with him?? there is nothing to be ashamed in it

 

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ssm014,

yes, I agree with you. All problems arise because of our conditioning. Just break free of the conventional mindset and experience the difference.

Everything should be honest and fair to both parties concerned. These basic values should be always adhered to at all costs. Nothing else really matters.

Nandita

 

Re: Not enough Sex

woman want sex from her real emotion but man need it from body. it is very different.

 

Re: Not enough Sex

Dear seren,

Try fantasizing; it may help. But you may have to take the lead. He watches **** just to excite himself. So talk dirty and do some role-playing and he is sure to respond and tire you out.

Good luck.

Nandita

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