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Friends ,to whom we should listen after marrage hus or parents?

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by sanabijay, Mar 6, 2012.

  1. sanabijay

    sanabijay New IL'ite

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    thankyou friends,
    I agree with srims and radiodo .your opinion are a relief for me.if we talk or do against our parents likes and dislikes,we are doing something wrong that was my doubt.all these 12 years my parents were taking advantage of it.they forgot my DH who has helped them financially and been a support for them all through the life.i wont say that myu DH is correct in all ways.i will be with him forever
    sana
     
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    RADIODOC679 Gold IL'ite

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    Dear Sana!
    We indians are always brought up with fear instilled in our hearts,brains etc...since our parents try to contriol everything and ensure that we tread the path they laid .Its natural that after marriage we cant listen to all of them all the time since we need to do what is right for us not THEM!!! i realised this also quite late but neverthless realised that i can make me happy only then i can make someone else happy.Stop pleasing both sides and listen to your DH & heart .you will never regret it.
     
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