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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Shanthi, Nov 21, 2007.

  1. puni88

    puni88 Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Hi Naazneen,
    It might be true that he will be relocating.

    ~Punitha

     
  2. imemyself

    imemyself Senior IL'ite

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    Hi,
    As some one rightly said Sudha Murthy is a core Social worker. Maybe once we plan out things...and things get lined up...we can go ahead!!!

    Love,
    Jaya
     
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  3. Arunarc

    Arunarc Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    It is just wonderful to know all the ladies coming together and supporting Jenita. Wish I too was with you but no problem my best wishes and prayers are with you all. And kick that freak on mybehalf too.
     
  4. suminanda

    suminanda New IL'ite

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    hi all,

    let's all join the grief of poor jenita's parents and extend them all support and
    morale to fight the case. it's hopeful to hear that police case has already been registerd and the Infosys will inquire .

    dear ilites, can't we refer the matter to the NALSA ( or to the state legal services authority, chennai) and the human Rights Commn? i thnk the national or the state women's commn can interfere.
    let's all pray for the speedy recovery of the poor girl.
    whatever indusladies can do i will take part.
     
  5. Ria2006

    Ria2006 Silver IL'ite

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    Hey gals,

    I got this pointer from google search..
    this is blog link
    Fight against False Dowry cases: Re: NRI dowry case: Complaint filed against husband

    Someone is discussing here , how innocent Christy is ..and how mean gal's father is.. SO i would assume , either its the guy himself or some of his close frend.
    I am just pasting one such thread form that blog...Very hurtful

    Re: NRI dowry case: Complaint filed against husband




    This incident allegedly happened at US of A

    God knows as to the truth behind this ... was this an accident ? ... was this intentional ? etc etc

    Now there is a DGP asking the girls family to file a complaint from Trichy !! - Tamil Nadu, India

    Where is the jurisdiction ????

    Do any of us know this unfortunate Hubby ?

    Is he alert to this legal issue(s) ?


    regards
    Vinayak



    >
    >
    >Re: NRI dowry case: Complaint filed against husband
    >Thu Nov 22, 2007 1:57 am (PST)
    >
    >Leave all these issues aside. First off
    >this guy is saying he never received a
    >single penny and is willing to make all of
    >his accounts public to prove it.
    >
    >Is this FIL bastar* ready to do the same
    >thing to prove he has given even a single
    >penny? NO.
    >
    >Why will he almost get his sister killed
    >for 80,000/-. If there is any truth why did
    >they not file the case in USA where the
    >punishment is a lot severe in india (But if
    >the case is found false, the accuser will be
    >punished and this is why they did not do it
    >in US).
    >
    >Can Jay/Uma who are in touch with Christy
    >get him to talk more? I e-mailed him but no
    >response.
    >
    >Will he want to come and fight if he is
    >promised by GOVT that the case will be
    >finished in 6 months and if he is proven
    >innocent the girls family will pay his
    >flight charges and 6 months of his regular
    >pay. if he says yes, then we can have the
    >same published in papers and its up to the
    >government if they are willing to take this
    >agreement as it is very fair.
    >
    >Thanks,
    >
    >R
    >
    >>
    >>,........... wrote:
    >>
    >>
    >>These incidents are happening because,
    >>during the marriage time girl father is
    >>promising so many things which he can't
    >>do.Finally they are miserably failing to
    >>give all the promises what he has done
    >>during the marriage.This is causing so many
    >>issues.
    >>
    >>1.Why girl father should promise for giving
    >>x lakhs of many.
    >>
    >>2.If he would have promised, then he would
    >>have given during the marriage with out
    >>having any issues.
    >>
    >>3.He told lie to get the good match to his
    >>daughter.
    >>
    >>4.If the match is beyond the capacity, he
    >>would have gone for the suitable one instaed
    >>of going beyond the capacity.
    >>
    >>Thanks
    >>
    >>S
    >>
    >>>
    >>>
    >>>--- Vinayak.20.victim123@... wrote:
    >>>
    >>> http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/Dowry_case_Complaint_filed_against_NRI/articleshow/2560054.cms
    >>>
    >>>NRI dowry case: Complaint filed against husband
    >>>
    >>>21 Nov 2007, 2045 hrs IST,PTI
    >>>
    >>>CHENNAI: Father of Smalin Jenita, the
    >>>pregnant wife of a US-based NRI, on
    >>>Wednesday filed a complaint with Tamil Nadu
    >>>DGP P Rajendiran, alleging that his son-in-
    >>>law had subjected her to torture for dowry.
    >>>
    >>>In his complaint, A Sebastian charged that
    >>>his son-in-law, O Christy Danies, an
    >>>employee of Infosys, and his parents had
    >>>beaten her up, pushed out of a speeding car
    >>>and later abandoned her at a North Carolina
    >>>hospital with serious injuries.
    >>>
    >>>The 23-year-old woman was later rescued by
    >>>a Pakistani employee of the hospital, who
    >>>also informed Sebastian about her plight.
    >>>
    >>>Sebastian immediately rushed to the US and
    >>>brought Jenita to Chennai and got her
    >>>admitted to a private hospital.
    >>>
    >>>Jenita, who got married to Danies in June,
    >>>2006, had left for the US this April to join
    >>>her husband.
    >>>
    >>>The DGP directed them to file a complaint
    >>>with the police in Tiruchirapalli, Jenita's
    >>>native place.
     
  6. Ria2006

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  7. scr665

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    Yes, ILites should also work for thw welfare of his sister Leena, who is fatally hurt as well.

    It is a family tragedy, do not make it more grave, by putting oil on fire,
    at the altar of media sensationalism.

    I cannot ladies what too indian can be so mean,
    they are talking about hitting the man, while advocating no domestic violence.

    Yes, it clearly smells of hatred they are brought up with and how blind and selfish they are.
     
  8. scr665

    scr665 Guest

    Watch this how the media had been so silent on the plight of sister, Leena ( she is not a woman per feminists standards)

    All the feminine organisations funding should be listed on the internet,
    they are getting funded by UN, consumer industries, etc etc.

    Hope Sudha Murthy, an engineer of similar calibre as Narayn Murhty,
    can see thorough this devlish and evilish venoms spitting media and dollar funded ladies, whose only mission to break families.

    Why they do not ask this fellow Sebastian, why he had even given a lakh rupees in dowry in first place. Its a shame on him to give the dowry and then cry wolf, even when his daughter his suffering.

    To view on youtube :
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v<wbr>=yPagpGX0MUk

    To download :
    http://rapidshare.com/files<wbr>/71615140/Smalin_Jenita<wbr>_Alleged_Dowry_Harass
    ment_Case.asf.html
     
  9. Ria2006

    Ria2006 Silver IL'ite

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    I appreciate your affection toward Leena and Christy.. You either have to be one of them or their well wisher. We would have sympathised with whole christy family, if it was indeed a genuine accident. But this is not.. We wish them worse outcome for whole of their life.

    Some questions for you.

    --- How only Jenita was left alone, abandoned..
    --- Why Leena is not lying on that strature HALF PARALYZED FOR LIFE.
    --- AND WHY YOUR CHRISTY IS NOT LYING THERE HALF DEAD. I would have loved to see that.
    --- I really wan to understand WHY WHOLE FAMILY NEEDS TO LIVE WITH A H1 person.. I mean WHY.. THATS just Gross and looks manipulative.
    --- And WHY the hell This mr Christy begged to Software folks in name of family injury..When he indeed abandoned his wife..
    --- Why he s not sacked yet from Infosys and debarred from any software job in world..
     
  10. scr665

    scr665 Guest

    We would have sympathised with whole christy family, if it was indeed a genuine accident. But this is not..
    == Which country do you live BTW. Hopefully, not afghanistan.

    We wish them worse outcome for whole of their life.
    == Yes this reflects your character. no wonder, you must be having worst in your life, and that only you can wish.

    Some questions for you.

    --- How only Jenita was left alone, abandoned..
    == Good question, until you find it out, hold your horses. As a feminist, i hope, you will be good at eating the ....

    --- Why Leena is not lying on that strature HALF PARALYZED FOR LIFE.
    == Good question, until you find it out, hold your horses.

    --- AND WHY YOUR CHRISTY IS NOT LYING THERE HALF DEAD. I would have loved to see that.
    == Again, you feminine brand love is no wonder. You cry wolf, and if you look at statistics, 100 times more men die in road accidents, you can breathe peace with this fact.

    --- I really wan to understand WHY WHOLE FAMILY NEEDS TO LIVE WITH A H1 person.. I mean WHY.. THATS just Gross and looks manipulative.
    == Again, this is whole reason why you are gross, and should not claim yourself Indian. It seems you do not have family and they do not visit you.

    --- And WHY the hell This mr Christy begged to Software folks in name of family injury..When he indeed abandoned his wife..
    == You need to have your facts, and there is no shame in asking for help, if it is required. Why her father came to US, and in US, no one is left abandoned, where even ILLEGAL Aliens are taken care of. Her father or she must be having some hidden agenda, why did not they filed criminal case in US, why did not they begged for media here than in India.

    --- Why he s not sacked yet from Infosys and debarred from any software job in world..
    == No wonder, you need treatment. Else, you might blame mankind for your fancy plight.
     

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