Divorce procedure in india

Neelu...am sorry i feel bad for whatever yyou are goign through. i cannot give any advice, but friend try to go to India for a while. it must be very hard for you here with the Baby and these issues. Time shall heal everything.

Brighter days are ahead Neelu. This is always the end result.

Take good care of yourself and the Baby. God bless you both.

 

Physical abuse when a baby is involved is very wrong. He can go to jail for this. Give him a clear warning that it should stop if at all you need to work on this relationship. Else call 911 and let the govt make him understand what type of a stupid jacka$$ he is.

You are not useless like he is portraying, he is. Just because you are housewife does not mean any lesser. HE will have to understand that. I think its high time you take grip of yourself and do something. Atleast for the baby. You don't want it to learn to live with abuse like you are.

Good luck.

 

Neelu,
Do warn him you will call if he tries any stunts, and if he does stunts still, follow what Nandhu has mentioned.

 

Dear Neelu

I am so sorry that the situation had to go this way. I remember your old post. You know what, I am somehow proud of you for standing up for yourself and thinking about your future! Way to go girl!

Sending lots and loads of strenght your way... take care...

 

First of all I am sorry Neelu that you had to undergo all this.Time will tell that monster ass h*** how hard you tried to keep up with that idiot moron.I will pray for you and your baby to come out of this crap as soon as possible.Anyway what has hapenned has happened.you need to look ahead ..One thing that I need to caution you about is that you cant leave to India without a letter of consent from him duly notarised if your child is a US citizen.I there any middleman like a common friend who couldhelp you out to get it out of that monster?

 

Hence all the more important that you call 911 .Its high time that he pays for his actions

 

Neelu

I will close the thread as per your request

Also please utilise this opportunity and after you go back to India, call him adn talk to him about what all you have gone through with him and how youare not planning to return back etc.

Also ask yourself what would make you beleive that he changed? yes he sure would promise he wont hit you or he wont disrespect you, but after you come back to US again what if he hits you again? and what if he wont send you to India again/? what would you do? please think of all these questions and try to find answers.

I dont know whehter he is really sending you to India or you felt bad that our posters here were using bad words so you gave that info just to coolit off...in any case...please try to make some reason and go to India and start planning with a cool mind. Do not put your life and mental sanity in risk for something called marriage. You love him and thats not your fault. Love should become our strength to survivve. It shouldnt make us feel weak and meek. Time for your husband also to show that he still loves you and that he wants to stick with you for all his life. Give him that chance t change himself. Good Luck