is it ok for husbands to have phone sex?

Trust ur husband... forget it..Even i didn't know abt that... live happily....Nothing to worry abt this.... Better just asay to avoid these....only thing happening is loss of money....

 

phone sex? first time i have come across this word.

but as far as watching pron movies are concerned y ur DH is hiding from u?. give him liberty to watch (take care of kids). watching in front of u is much better than watching it in ur absence. tell him that u know that he is watching. my DH also watches pron movies. but he is not hiding it from me.

 

As far as I know you have to pay money to talk to those girls. And basically your husband is having sexy talks with some strange women and reveal his sexual fantasies to them.
I am not sure but it would disturb me if my husband gets sexually satisfied with the help of an other woman. It is not so extremely wrong like going to a prostitute but still I am not feeling good about it.

But you have to decide how you feel about your husband's way to satisfy his sexual needs.
If you can live with it, fine. But if not you should talk to him!
I mean what if you would do the same? Talking sexy stuff to an other man?
I don't think your husband would tolerate that.

 

You say he is a very good husband, now he watched **** and has big collection too. And you also say its normal for men to watch so much **** like he does(which I dont agree). What is the problem if he does talk on sex lines?

He may be visualising so many women too in his mind while watching **** movies. You accept that but dont accept phone talk?

I believe a person starts with thoughts and later converts in action. One cannot just keep fantasizing about those things all the time....

I feel phone sex is addiction and waste of lot of money as these line charge lot of money per minute. All that these lines would be doing is these girls speaking in seductive voice and tone and arousing the men on the other side. That is what I can interpret.. Cyber sex is another variation....

I also feel watching these **** movies so much , listening to these talks will make a mind somewhat sick in itself. That is not healthy ..

I am not sure about your question is it normal for men to talk with such girls? But this is not something that all men do. So if this can be regarded as normal you can find out...

 

I accept 100% with Tridev.These things will make you sick minded.Why not some men realise that there are much more things in life than all this rubbish.

In my opinion , what your husband does is NOT OK.

 

You have no problem. I also agree with you, sex is very precious and the expression of the love between husband and wife.
Could be that some men do not think that way?!

There is a saying: A woman needs one man to satisfy all her needs. A man needs all women to satisfy his one need!

Yes I know a very mean generalization. But in case of your husband be just cautious not that he really transform to some sex addict!

 

" is it ok for husbands to have phone sex? "

Watching **** maybe harmless, but phone sex could lead to emotional bonding with the woman on the phone, which could lead to an affair, which will break a marriage. So the answer is NO.