What does DH want?!!

Ms.true,

Had an opportunity to read your blogs.Awesome:thumbsup.

Now coming to this topic,

1.A husband wants emotional support,financial support,good network(through his wife's FOO,friends,colleagues etc).

2.He wants her to get involved in all family discussions,important decisions,it at all her presence is mandatory

3.He wants her to accept/digest his negatives,no matter what it is!

This is JMO.

 

cant generalise
but my dh always says he wants a wife who can understand him properly
sometimes i get angry very soon for example when he says he will come in 5mins and makes it 1 hr as soon as he comes either i keep a long face and wont talk or start an argument before he gives the reason...
he says he wants a wife who can totally understand him

and most importantly says *****who takes care of his parents and respects them and follows them ********

 

As i am not much aged to discuss on this but would like to share my views on this!!!!

a DH wants nothing more than love, love, love to be in short!!

to explain in a brief as he may come across many relations till marriage the only close relation after marriage is his DW!!
he is about to spent major part of time with her! so its natural for him to expect a much from his wife!!

first and foremost a good cooking wife it really makes him to love coming to his house sooner and increases his love on his wife that this taste may even touch his heart!!

the next is a patient and everloving wife! he really feels happy and proud of a wife when she always welcomes her husband from office with smile on her face!! with pleasant words too!! it makes him feel to be at home always and he loves to be with her!!

wifes do remember that he is also a human with all emotions that h may have stress at office and also outside so its a need for us to relieve him from stress by our love and affection!!
please do forgive him in little things that does not cost much but only gains you your DH's love and affection!

do see that your love to him increases day by day by these actions :thumbsup

have a wonderful life:thumbsup

 

Amen to this!!!

 

what husbands want from their wives is this, "dont give me any tension (in any form)". otherwise their fuse just blows off. either it bursts or is under repair (doesn't work properly or constantly gives you problems later).

cheers.

 

wow nice topic MStrue!!

Well i think it varies from man to man.For some men emotional support from Dw is important then good cooking and vice versa. its difficult to generalize it but some common things can be listed like:
1. Love
2.Respect for his family
3. Respect for his ambitions
4. care for his household things
5. Most important emotional support in tough times
and last but not the least Understanding

If a DW provdes all of them then i think she should be awarded as an ideal and perfect DW:cheers