They Just Wheeled My Dad In

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  1. SuiDhaaga

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    Baby in the NICU? Oh my, that must have been heart-wrenching. Please tell me everything is okay. i am crying just thinking about this now


    I'll discuss the removal options with my Dad.

    But how scary must it be for the baby. Baby cannot talk for him or herself. Please tell me everything is okay.
     
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    Thanks for sharing. I never knew about it. I thought removing it quickly is the only option.
     
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    I pull the skin taut and then pull it off slowly. I'm scared if I do it quick it will be even worse.
     
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    He’s getting really tall lately. Almost up to my shoulder :)
     
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    Oh good, I am glad to hear. I am happy everything is great now.
     
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    I get upset when I think of the nurses who were irritated when my Dad cried in pain when IVs, catheters, etc were being removed.

    My Dad can never bear that I suffer in pain. My nasty ex taunted me when I had pain, such as during husband-wife relations (he blamed me and tole me i should loosen my body - I did so mechanically, not out of love or affection, but out of fear), when I had UTI (because he is a dirty person) and when the ob-gyn did pelvic exam. I was uncomfortable and cried in pain. Then he taunted me.

    Maybe this is how majority of males are so when the nurses were removing my Dad's IVs, etc, they got irritated why he is crying in pain.

    I wish I could have told them that my Dad is good person and doesn't like anyone in pain so please be nice to him.
     
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    no one want to see someone in pain except few..

    some people are very sensitive to needles but they have to go thru what they suppose to do, eventhou we take we take out needles slowly it doesnt hurt but i feel its hurts more that way..but whatever happen let is go you can do anything thinking over past things.

    some people are kind of rough all we can hope is we dont get those people around us thats all.

    hows everything??? everything should be fine in a day or so...
     
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    It is your past experience and associated emotions makes you experience your present life with that view. Make them independent.
     
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    I will try to let it go

    One moment I am hopeful, next moment i feel bad thinking of it. This was only a week ago

    Dad is still struggling. Appt with Surgeons is a 3 weeks away.

    I heard recovery takes months
     
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    I'm still working on that.

    Still working on that
     
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