Time Travelling - To Re-start Life Again

Dear @nuss
You never cease to inspire me. I've never thought of accepting the negative past with positivity.
But you are right..... I am so upset that I had to lose almost a decade in fighting with family, society etc..etc... at the cost of losing my career advancement because of the mess my in laws have created in my marriage. The loss is huge, and I had to lose my health & sanity to come out of that, and save my family.

But, looking at the positive side of the same, I understand how far I have grown as a strong & matured woman from a fragile, emotional self.
The tragedies made me a confident woman. The problems also introduced the best supportive systems. And the struggles taught me self defense and the importance of family.
As you rightly mentioned, my life today is the summary of my experiences and choices.

SGBV minus the trouble times would be a soft spoken, simple someone but my experiences made me a social influencer in my community.

 

In IL, you are given a certain time frame to go back to your threads/posts and edit them as you wish. After that period, even if you could go back to the previous page, you can no longer do anything with what you have posted.

Same goes with life. You are given a window of opportunity to correct your mistakes, but that opportunity won't be there forever.

Eg: If you fail in your college exam, you can study well and try to pass in the next examination. But you can't correct this after a decade or so. Because your chance at the college is limited to a couple of years only.