What Are Some Questions Which Involves “crossing Boundaries” ?

@anika987

That's a great thread

The questions I hate to hear:

1. As you said ofcourse I hate when people ask me about pregnancy. And these are related to it.

A. Did you get your cycle this month?
B. When you gonna give treat?
C. When you gonna give us good news?
D. Why are you gaining weight?
E. Are you planning for later pregnancy?
F. Did you try this month?
G. What about exercise?
H. Are you taking this? that? May I suggest?
I. Have you heard of this medicine? Have you heard of this doctor?
J. Don't feel that you had a termination. And did you really resign because of that??

And lot more and their own answers or their own justification for answers which I should have given

2. Really hurtful stupid questions :

A. During working days, upon returning home while on call
Why did you cut the call, does your husband scold you or he doesn't prefer you talking with us?? (Still it remains the same even after giving justifiable answer - tiredness)

Why to work so sincere and be cautious?? ( Who will give money, if i made any mistake)

Oh production issue?? Who contacted you to test it? Let the manager come.


B. After resignation,

what did you cook for him today? You have to do all chores from now on. Anyways you have a good husband.

Why to care? There is no financial problem, even if you have your in-laws will help. ( seriously??)

Why to get a degree when you want to sit at home?? All face same situation it's not like everything bad happens to you? Will you give healthy birth by being at home??

3. What is your category?

My biggest top rated hatred questions

 

1. At work,Why are you taking leave? I need to inform my absence and why am taking is NOT any one's problem

2. Whats your kids marks? None of anyone's business

3. Why does your hair look frizzy? Mine is frizzy wavy hair and I love it that way..I dont need to explain why " I love frizzy hair" and Why I dont mind having one

 

So true the thing about leave.

And about hair

 

Very good thread..

When I was working full time:
1. Who will take care of your little kid
2. Do you cook food at home or will buy from restaurant
3. How much you earn
4. Your SIL earn more than you or you earn more than her
5. Why your kid is so thin, is he eating

Now I moved to part time:
1. Do you guys go for vacation since you moved to part time
2. Do you guys eat outside or everyday you have to cook since you moved to part time

I am in USA :
1. Some relatives will ask me, since you are away and no help , I don't know how you guys manage when get sick
2. Some other from India, do your kids know Tamil? Why can't you teach them
3. Why your kids look thin, are you cooking everyday
4. You have more time but you always say busy

Friends here;:
1. What you do ...do you work or at home
2. What activities your kids are up to
3. What level of reading
4. Do you buy organic food
5. Do you hire cleaners or you clean yourself
6. Planning to move to bigger house

 

1) Random aunties badgering me about why we were not hurrying up and having kids: I felt throwing all my fertility clinic reports in their face after the third time. I still hold grudges against certain parties for this.

2) After I had a child: why are you putting her in daycare? Why don’t you hire a nanny? Why don’t you call your mom to look after the kid? Endlessly.

3) The eternal salary questions. One persistent character even asked what my brothers salary was: she had never even met him. I sent her his WhatsApp and invited her to ask directly.