Ok this is weird. There are two pigeons sitting outside my windowsill that just did "honeymoon" Now they are both sitting and relaxing. Is this a sign? I am unable to take a photo - I don't want to be that nosy MIL!
Sign of what? I remember my old house we had pigeons coming n mating every now n then. If they can lay eggs 12 times a year then the frequency of their mating is 1/ month. So every month this was something I witnessed. Initially I enjoyed, fed them, protected them from rain by building a small house for them and their chicks. Then the real trouble started when my entire balcony was filled by their poop.. Then sometimes the crows would come n peck the chicks and kill them. Then I stopped all this drama and realised I cannot pet these pigeons. Now we have bird net installed in new home . Still they come n sit near bathroom shaft. I shoo them away. BTW when I had trouble conceiving , a couple of relatives who came would comment "it's a good sign that there are pigeon babies, very soon you'll get baby, it's a good sign and all ". It's all BS. The pigeons only pooped and dirtied my balcony. No connection Whatsoever. In fact I conceived after a stopped letting them destroy my balcony.
I like your response. Somewhere in the deep recesses of my mind I wish for Happily Ever After. You are right, signs are BS. Will ignore and focus on other things.
One can sense your frustration with relatives who say stuff to bring your hopes up. I've been asking God for signs for things but haven't been getting them. Perhaps I was taking the wrong approach. It is better for one to enjoy what they have right now.
We also had pigeons delivering in our balcony. I also thought it's a good sign. But though cats,pigeons even squirrel once delivered my daughters did not conceive They adopted
Aunty thank you for your reply. It's strange how we human beings try to connect all this . That's the best they have done for their happiness.. And kudos to them..