Covid Crisis And Insenstivities

Ok so my husband has always been a mammas boy and he has Always kept his parents and family first in all these 15 years. He always makes a big deal about his parents health and whenever I would bring my parents health topic somehow they are always made healthy despite’s their old age of 65-70 . My I laws are 65-75 so he always makes his parents as more prune to health issues versus mine are considered 5 yearly healthier than them. I always had disagreements with him about this topic as I always
Felt that who knows whose parents will go forst .. mine are 5 years younger but honestly it’s just 5 years and not much .

now during this horrendous covid times he’s being very insensitive as usual. I’m sick worried for all the families and whoever he talks he always says “I’m really worried for my parents” this makes me so uncomfortable that even at this time you are just worried about your own parents and can atleast say that I’m worried for our parents but no he has said that 2-3 times for now . I have issues with husband and he always had this mean nature where he cares only about his side of the family and has no regards by himself for my side . I always had to remind him and fight for my family . But this time also in these tough times he always says I’m worried about my parents

I dnt want to correct him because i have been doing that for 15 years and there is only very slight change in him .

Is there any other way to realize him that he’s been mean and make him taste his own self ? I can also very easily start saying I’m
Worried about my parents all the time . Is there a better way to handle this ?

 

Thank you and yes I agree but it hurts a lot . I want to give him a taste of his own lesson as well .

 

He is very sensitive to a lot of people but to my family there is this competition . I hate it and dnt know how to handle it as well. I get super angry and feel that he makes me do everything for this family but he has almost zero responsibility towards mine

 

Totally my situation for 15 years . And he and his family think that they are very nice people and always good to others . Initially I used to hate I laws and now I hate him as well because he is also the same just like them .

 

I

wonder if there is anything that can be done to realize his mistake or if I can do something similar to him