Venting It Out

Unusually excessive noise/sound is one surefire way to tell that a sump-pump is going to quit soon. You can read the complete list of other symptoms: Link
[ clicking "like" never seems appropriate when someone is venting or complaining about something unfortunate]

 

“You are what you think” is the saying by psychologists and monks. You are aware What one thinks more often about a thing goes into deep subconscious and accordingly mind programmes his or her body. Put huge positive thoughts so that negative thoughts stored in already overflows out.. out.....

I endorse.

Thanks and Regards.

 

Dear you’re overloaded with responsibilities, looking after a baby and a kid, and a full time job along with household and academic activities of the elder kid. Since schools are closed it’s an added work of supervising the child’s entire curriculum,.no wonder you feel old and have post partum depression. Pls get adequate paid help and support...
You require supplements for your hair loss as you’re also BFing and pumping milk and suffering from fatigue due to lack of sleep and more more work.., do check with your doc.

 

There's a lot on your plate right now, and you are doing a great job of handling as much as possible. Go a little easy on yourself. Young mothers are the most over worked creatures on earth.
On personal care- you need sleep first , and fresh air, If exercise makes you tired , it is probably best to cut back or pause for now. Go for walks with family. Try to stick to a generally healthy diet, and stop snacking ( easier said when there are kids around). If you can carve out sometime for your self every week, that would be great. Take help if and when you can, let some work slide, slacking at times is good for the soul

I personally feel you are right about not pushing your daughter too hard. Differences in parenting is not easy- since both parents genuinely want the best. Talk to your DH on a quieter time and come to an understanding. Dont forget you are one team. I remember in a similar phase I would feel so much angst that it took a lot of effort to remind myself that we were one team, our main intentions were sincere.
There is only so much you can do for your parents and in laws. Let them vent, they need an ear, ideally go far a walk when you are talking with them, that way you may be able to destress before entering home . Or take a break, and go for a walk and get it a little out of your system.
Remember to smell the roses. Children grow-up so fast, cherish the joys, soak in the moments, be grateful for your blessings. Life may not be perfect, far from it , but the beauty is , it doesnt have to be.

This is only temporary, things get better. As the kids get older , you will get younger. And later you will even nostalgically miss these chaotic days.