Finances With Husband

miser - a person who hoards wealth and spends as little money as possible.

He is not a miser he is enjoying spending his wife’s money and taking trips to Hawaii.

 

A person who doesnt pay for baby diapers and foods and his wife is forced to use her credit cards seems a miser to me.

 

Using wife’s money and not using his money is called greed.

Greed - intense and selfish desire for something, especially wealth, power, or food.

 

.Everyone has a different perception of a situation. You need not mend my english here. Help the Op if you can .Now dont correct me with the emoji here.

 

I am not trying to correct your English. We are having different perceptions of her husband.

 

And now we learn that the OP was just messing with the kind people of IL. Her husband got a little wet when it rained money in the family, that is about all:

 

OMG OP! Thanks for proving that every story has 3 sides : yours, mine and the truth.

 

It doesn’t matter he needs to support you regardless....especially when you didn’t have money...or were not working...your last post didn’t make sense so please clarify...like how could you pay rent in the 10 years if you’re not working or looking after a child...surely you had some sort of arrangement?

 

I detest marriages where the husband expects the wife to pay bills and count the money spent by her or on her by him while she is not working! I am sure such men with this mentality would have definitely married the woman with her parents spending huge money on wedding and or dowry!.
If your parents spent the entire money for your wedding and gave any expensive gifts/dowry, etc, and still he expects after marriage to make you pay for rent and your kids expenses etc then he should not deserve to be called man.

If both husband and wife earn and had their marriage was done with fiannces shared from each family equally then surely they can share household expenses.