What Has Your Spouse Done That You Cherish The Most?

Hello doobyda! Kitna pyaara thread hai! I am itchy to respond.

If the thread is not strictly on spouse, and, if, I may, interpolate to my quirk, as an inquiry on any timelord-styled companion in his tardis adventure, from the past, future, some hypothetical, some alt-universe, a man, or a composite of men, in a fun-slam to share a memorable gesture of the mosaic of men who made my heart go dhak dhak -- it's -- (drumroll) language and communication. I cherish the language in him.

... and the aspiration he sneaked into me to cultivate a higher form of language and expression groomed by him, observing him in a lazy dialogue, heated contention or even a causal analysis of a thought-experiment where he invariably outperforms. Not an instance or event but the sweep and presence. Every utterance, the ability to communicate even a theory or sentiment in such stupendous flair. I cherish the influence sourced from his inimitable presence to improve my juvenile communication compared to his suavity. That has moved me intensely.

I treasure such influences, even if they are intangible.

To advance me in envy, in frustration, in optimism, in conceit of having improved, in distress of the illusion of having improved, when undyingly he fuels that agony and ecstasy in me to ascend. His expanse and effective communication unnerves me.

I wish ....someday (like the Black Eyed Peas song in 'Knight and Day' film), I could talk and persuade like him in intellect and wit. All I do today is grunt against his finesse.

I cherish that aspiration he is responsible in the amateur me, to promote my private growth, while he outshines in education and language and is quite a coveted paragon.

One day I'd like to articulate an observation, any proposal, an approach in that outstanding command of his nurtured language in me whereby I am heard in clarity even if it's not to agreement, and I experience a sense of having explained it to the fullest expression possible.

What can I say? This ridiculous claim is the fondest and best gesture of that hypothetical, alt-universe man.

(I know: I never assert things to point. You asked about spouse, and here I am blabbering about 'dhak dhak' vocalization in language about this inscrutable man of mine from Gallifrey which I cherish the most. Hiding behind the chair: I have a feeling, the moderator might delete my gibberish post by morning stating violation of community standards in a self-indulgent psycho-babble)

 

Haan ji! I suspected you would x-ray me about it. I typed ‘composite of men’ and wondered, if it’s Draupadi sounding. Replaced with something which was feverishly docile as Sita. Reverted to ‘composite’ assuming such psycho-babble post might evade scrutiny. But who am I underestimating, someone whose accomplished and charming husband darts back home sensing her uneasiness. (I should have replaced with that evocative of Sita)

Truth be told, I was elated seeing your post on the fondness between you both. I always root for solidarity in a couple and your recollection heartened me.

I wanted to write something, anything, composite, granite or algebra but not skip your lovey initiative.

 

Oye, had you tracked my historical activity, you'd have noticed, I always swoop on 'happy' threads.
Gaana wana, bhalle baja, happy spouse and hypothetical partners are my alley.

We both are enough to give Madhuri a run for her dhak dhak in our reinvented inter-galactic dhaklings!
Asgard bhi chalega! All that hammer-wielding and biceps will come handy in fixing house repairs in spousal support.

Will these inter-galactic men cause more nuisance than the existing terrestrial spouses? Some philosophical rumination.

We usually meet and depart over some bollywood gaana. Your hubsy returning home early reminded me of this sweet melody. (Sometimes you walk towards me and sometimes I do in mutual need.)



So oye ya, happy-wala threads I am ever garrulous.

 

@Novalis

You must be wondering what is this fly doing in a workshop? Your criteria of a good companion brought me here especially after @Rihana nominated your post (the content) to the best of December 2020. I have decided to create a much more detailed criteria for you to add to your expectations:

1) English Language skill - William Shakespeare
2) Internal Affairs - Carlo Bruny Sarkozy
3) Financial skills - John D. Rockefeller
4) Innovation - Steve Jobs
5) Scientific knowledge - Albert Einstein
6) External Affairs - None
7) Technological knowledge - Sundar Pichai
8) Knowledge of tourist spots - Wendy Perrin
9) Child care - Janet Lansbury
10) Healthcare & Hygiene - Dr Anthony Fauci
11) Appearance - Tom Cruise
12) Cooking skills - Gordon Ramsay
13) Political strategist - Winston Churchill
14) IQ Level - Marilyn vos Savant
15) Investigation - Robert S. Mueller

 

he took care of me when I had my operation and I really appreciate that.

 

@Laks09,

This happened during last year winter vacation.

The night before our trip, we both had a huge fight about something and neither of us were feeling excited to go on the trip. But we still packed our bags and left home. We reached the airport and as we were getting ready to board the flight, he throws a sudden surprise with upgraded tickets just for me and the kid. While I was keeping to myself thinking about the previous night, he had quickly changed his mood and decided to do something nice.

I really admire his ability to not hold any grudge and bounce back to normalcy quickly.