Teaching Job Experience - Please Advice

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  1. generic

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    Yes all options need to be considered...its just that lot of people are recommending teaching profession so she wanted to make proper enquiries before deciding...MNC job has long hours and has work pressures..yes...already she has work exp in an MNC and she knows what is expected.. . but the issue does not lie in the actual work but about the sedentary and non sedentary aspect...she was limping with pain and unable to walk and on high dose painkillers for many days about 2 months ago..better now
    ..but in such situations, I was thinking how tough it would be to stand and walk and teach classes and carry out non teaching duties for a junior teacher..a sedentary job would mean her not having to do too much walking and maybe some work from home option or flexibility for emergencies...I'm not sure if my thought process is right nor not...
     
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    Dearie,
    Do you read what you are posting ?
    Why should all options need to be considered?
    Can your sister not stay home and recuperate from what ails her?

    You are saying that your sister is an invalid in chronic agony, and you want her to go out to work in some occupation where she has to exacerbate her misery.

    Why do you want her to suffer more than she does without going out to work ?
    What is your joy in making her suffer ?

    If your sister is very poor, and needs to make some money, there are other ways to get at it. There is a huge online business in crowd-funding the destitute and the sick. Your sister can do it from home.
     
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    In a place like bala vihar in Chennai- a government institution engaged in rehabilitation of young ones would provide boarding lodging facilities with salary. It is also pensionable.
    To equip for teaching there is teaching institute run by government of tamilnadu with stipends too.
    Regards.
     
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    No one is forcing her to work...she will apply once she recovers...
    She is having lot of problems in her married life...wants to make herself financially secure..this isn't the right forum to elaborate on that.....being financially dependent makes things worse for her...she wants to apply only after recovery is done...already mentioned that its being treated by medications and physiotherapy..
    Sitting at home not an option in the long run ..
     
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    We do not know if that poor lady with chronic back pain is a native of Tamil nation. I am now doubting the veracity of the whole thing. There might be no back-pain, and there is no sister.
    Perhaps the OP of the thread would let us know.
     
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    "Sitting at home" is not a phrase that many stay-at-home mothers can take without having to bristle at the underlying meanings. I am now in doubt as to whether or not you are talking about a real sister.

    On the internet, we are not to believe what we see/read. When a sister keeps on saying the things that I had highlighted by bulleting your own post (see the quote of your post), there is no reason for us to believe your story about a sister with a chronic back pain who has to find employment.

    Explain yourself, and tell us why we ought to believe anything about what you say.
     
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    Sir thanks for your reply we are not from Tamil Nadu.
     
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    Unfortunately there are people with genuine health issues at younger age ...and now modern medicine is really advanced in managing all health problems and managing work and home...doesn't mean giving up on career...we all are fully supportive about this...when a woman is facing issues in her married life and wants to do job and be financially independent why should anyone question her? Sitting at home was not a right term but she loves to do job so we have to encourage her..
    You have to be kinder in your replies and not assume every thread is a troll. .
    If I've to elaborate on what she has gone through in her personal life it would a different thread in a different forum running into pages.
    I wanted some feedbacks regarding teaching profession to see if she can do teachers training after a few months when her health is GOOD.
    Didnt expect sarcastic replies.
     
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    @ moderators kindly close this thread.
    Personal problems I'll discuss in the relevant forum only.
    I got the feedbacks which I needed.
     
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    :hello:I understand in every state there is a similar facility exists and one would like to explore .
    Thanks and Regards.
     

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