My most most cherished gift from my husband was when he cooked my favorites, with cake and 12 red roses. I was touched by the card that was telling me what is in his mind. The best part was when I came home late, he threw his tantrum because I messed up his surprise. Still when he hugged me, I fell into his arms and cried with joy. He never was big on all this, but, this particular year (25th) he went all out.