What irritates you?

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  1. BhargaviChakravarthy

    BhargaviChakravarthy Bronze IL'ite

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    Hi all,
    Sometimes we do not prefer or pay a deaf ear to certain issues in life.Simply put,the favorites/preferences differ from each and every one.A person may find some “circumstances “ repugnant.If not to the extent of repugnance,we may get irritated to particular incidents happening.When a person come across such situations,he/she may immediately feel disturbed /irritated.The reaction could be lucid.

    Some common examples are when a person is on the way to his office,if he is caught in a traffic jam/wait till the signal light changes,he will look irk-some.Most of the people feel irritated when their house is not spic and span. Some may feel impatient if the auto stops to fill the petrol tank while they are traveling.They may be in a hurry to attend something important.

    So friends, what makes you to get irritated.Please bear with me for initiating an “irritating” bonktopic.Big Laugh :hide:


    To start with,let me go with my first reply. I mostly get irritated if the person i am speaking to don’t understand what I exactly say and speak something irrelevant instead.Have you experienced this kind?Go ahead.
     
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    shvap_786 Gold IL'ite

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    Re: What irritates you??

    HI BC...

    i get irrirtated really when the autowala stops to put the petrol and thr itself he will ask for money... even if i'm with hubby back home... if he goes to petrol stations... i said...aaaahh... y dont u do this tomm... now i wanna go home...

    diff topic to discuss... let us watch wht irritates others...
     
  3. BhargaviChakravarthy

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    Re: What irritates you??

    Hi shvap,
    Thanks for stepping in as the first person.I too get irritated and mostly my anger shoots up when the auto wals stops near petrol stations.But we cannot blame him.He cannot purposely come to fill the petrol.He must do it only on the way.But on the other side,it really disturbs and irritates us.Many a time i have even asked about it to him.he gave the same reply.

    Thanks for your fb

    BC
     
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    Re: What irritates you??

    It irrates me when people judge other people while they are doing/experiencing the same thing.

    For example:
    Friend says: His wife didn't come to the party, did you see that? I think the are having troubles bla bla bla:spin:spin
    And she forgets that her husband was not at the party either. Actually never joins a party. How narrow minded ca you be?

    This really irrates me, no it ticks me off, I get pissed off. But for keeping up the relation I just listen and think, before looking at other people look at yourself.
     
  5. malspie

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    Re: What irritates you??

    Politics, it irritates me very much and SHOW OFF'S.

    When people approach you for getting their work done and then show their back, when people brag about false traits in them!

    I am a socialite, but I like myself as my best friend. I hate politics and I am a very poor player.

    I believe in minding my own business and not poking in others matters and issues and creating hurdles in their life for my personal growth!

    What you do, will come back to you one day! It is Kalyug!
     
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  6. BhargaviChakravarthy

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    Re: What irritates you??

    Dear chandramukhi,
    Thanks for joining here.I hate gossips.I don't know why people have to find the reason for other's activity?Just because they may have some reason,it need not be the same reason for other people ???.Moreover a person may be happy/really happy.But some one may ask "Why is he dull/sad?".This really irritates me.That person may look tired or some situation may forced him to look like that.But why do we find a reason for that.It will be helpful and better if everyone take care of their own job.

    Nice thought.Keep up.

    BC
     
  7. lahy15

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    Dear BC,

    Interesting Topic ...

    For me, the most irritating one is 'When my house is messy' ... Normally, it won't happen when I am at home but when I go out on Doctor appointment or even for an hour walking, I see the messy as soon as I enter :spin... Also, when my hubby forgot where he kept his personal belongings and asks me 'Where did you kept my things ?' :cool:
     
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  8. BhargaviChakravarthy

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    Oh dear malspie.
    What to speak about politics?Everything they do is politics.False statements,diplomacy,hiding what is really in their mind and speaking something irrelevant.But the sufferrers are the poor people.Better avoid.There is a famous saying in tamil("Dhushtana kandal dhoora vilagi vidu").So it is better to avoid and run from the danger than to get caught in that.Even if a person is disturbing them a little,then he is gone.

    Of course disturbing others for our good is not long lasting.We can do nothing with what others have /what they are.We have to eat food with our own mouth only then it can digest......

    thanks for the open fb

    BC
     
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  9. BhargaviChakravarthy

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    Dear lahy,
    Thanks for joining here.This is one of the common issue which irritates most of the people.I too get angry when the house is not in order ,especially when the papers are lying here and there.

    Thanks for your fb...
    BC
     
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    Hi BC,

    After reading my friend Suni's FB I want to add dust, dirt and a messy room can put me off! Bet the stars, I stay alone, but my house will be perfect! Each thing at its place, including my comb! No scattering, no mess!

    A clean atmosphere generates clean thoughts, also keeps you agile in trying to keep it in order and gives you less time to sit on the net, club and parties to gossip and plan whose rug should I pull!
     

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