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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by svpriya, Apr 30, 2018.

  1. svpriya

    svpriya Silver IL'ite

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    Hi friends...

    Me and my husband are having over affection together...sometimes it creates problem between us... for e.g. it is very hard for me to leave him just for 2 days and for him too...
    Does over affection with husband or wife is dangerous ??

    Please suggest me...
     
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  2. Raffaello

    Raffaello Silver IL'ite

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    How long are you married ... Too much of anything is always bitter ... Its not a dangerous act but you should always keep a reality check in your affection .. If you want to move to your parents place for pregnancy you gonna leave him.. Always its sweet to give a break to affection to understand your closeness and strengthen relationships .. Always missing each other gives moments to realize how much you both live each other and strengthen your bond...

    Not so perilous but you should be pragmatic in your expectations and also act in reality rather then flimy type. .
     
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    madras2018 Platinum IL'ite

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    Dangerous ? It's life threatening ! Please dont underestimate the power of over affection. It is playing with fire. Cant you tell from the number of sad posts on IL by women hurt by over affection ?
     
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    We got married 7 years ago and its an arranged one...having no kid...trying to get conceived...
     
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    Enjoy being madly in love ! Why worry ?
    Better than getting to a point where when the husband says he is traveling for work , you say hastily and haste haste “ hasta la vista, baby”
     
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    We are from Chennai...I m a housewife
     
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    But if I leave him for 2 days and go to parents home he is hardly gets affected...because of our family issues I m the only support for him...that's why...
     
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    From your replies looks like both have developed a mutual bond so when one falls other lifts up the mood... You are being a moral support for your husband I suppose and that makes him upset when you leave him.. Unlike a child to a mom, you're to him...

    God bless you soon with a little ones...
     
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    Thanks a lot...:blush::blush:
     

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