Will You Keep Quiet If Your Husband Chats With A Far Related Cousin Sister Almost Everyday

See if he is maintaining the chat secretly or such that you dont see, and check if he is getting uncomfortable when you read their chats. If no for both the above, dont worry too much.The initial enthusiasm to chat may fade soon.

If yes, for either of the above, you have a valid reason to feel suspicious.

 

Is she married ?? Or if married Is she happy in her marriage ? You can casually ask your husband wat is it tat you keep chatting every day ? Wats ur intentions ask in funny way first . If he continues even after tat then it’s something serious

 

Hell NO ! A gainfully employed married man does not have the time to communicate everyday with his own parents sometimes, let alone a distant cousin. What could they be chatting about ? Memories of childhood or other uncles and aunts and cousins ? But not everyday, right ?
Start by casually asking what he is chatting to her everyday and sit next to him when he chats with her. If he is uncomfortable or tries to hide , chances are the “distant” cousin is turning into someone “near and dear “.

 

I guess it depends on whether he keeps it a secret from me or not. It wouldn't really bother me on a normal basis, unless he is becoming secretive and protective of his phone. Have you met and chatted with this cousin? Has he offered to call her us and let you chat too? You are better at gauging if the interactions are platonic, so look for the other signs. On face value, this seems innocent, but there must be some reason this would bother you.

 

Unless you are really very close you wouldn't be making a call to anyone. And that too to a different gender means they should be really closer since their childhood.

Please try nipping it in the bud.