God Had Mercy...finally

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  1. Sweety82

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    Hello all,
    Hope u r all doing good. U know I have posted many threads, in particular how I suffered from pregnancy loss issues, pcos, and cervical incompetence. I hope this thread will help many women overcome and win over the struggle like what I did. My husband is diabetic and we suffered childless and it was more than 10 years we suffered. Initially we said no no to child but that stupid decision made us so deprived later on. With all in-laws problems I got pregnant for the first time on medications. But that resulted in failure and I lost my baby around 17 weeks and we came to know that I had cervical incompetence. Later on we struggled for around a year and my health got slowly recovered. Again we tried for kid with medications. Doctor suggested that since I was taking medications for around a year she suggested to take a break for 3 months and then continue for the next cycle. While taking break I could find that I didn't get my periods. Hurray I got Preggie again and we celebrated. Doctor told me that since I had cervix issues I have to get cerclage done. So I was on bedrest I took off leave from my job I was taking medications. By 14 th week I got my cerclage done . I continued bed rest and was counting days of joy to see my baby. By 20th week I had to go for anomaly scan and found that my cerclage was a failure and they told me that my internal os was open. By 22weeks and 3 days I got my contractions and I had to give still birth. My cerclage was a failure. I could find that my life was dark with no outlet . I shouted and cried out of frustration and my parents consoled me to their best. Even though we had differences, my husband was supportive. After my 2ND loss, my cerclage knot was still there inside and I was given general anesthesia again to remove that. After that I couldn't get up and walk for around 3 weeks. My period cycle got totally affected and I couldn't predict when it will come and how long it will be there. At that time my husband took me to some other place for relaxation. After that we decided to take up ivf or surrogacy as option. When we were discussing, I asked him for one more year to hope for a successful pregnancy. Even though he was not for it to see me undergo lot of stress and struggles, he said yes. I prayed lord . I believed only in god. While I was making decisions, I made ivf and surrogacy as last option(because of psychological fear on these procedures) . I wanted to try Ayurveda. I met a physician in KA/kottakkal and he was very supportive. First I was given meds for regularising periods. he told me to wait for 3 months before trying for a kid. I was given medicines for cervical issues also. Again 3 months? My god, Pls help me to pass over all these times. My husband told me to believe and take the treatment.I believed and I took all meds without fail. My husband took ashwagantha. Doctor told me to rest the uterus and cervix for 3 months so that it gets strengthened. After 3 months we started to try again. By the end of 4th month I had stomach cramps and I massaged my abdomen well to get my periods. Didn't show up. Then again I waited for periods to come. Nothing. Then I thought maybe because of my change in period cycle this is happening. My mom advised me to take blood test. I told r u joking. Finally it was yes and I couldn't believe myself. But again my concern was to save this pregnancy. I had to consult a gynaecologist and with her support and with my ayurvedic physician support I took both the medicines . I was given cerclage by 12th week and days passed over with mental burden and fear. Finally by 37th week I gave birth to a baby boy which was a successful pregnancy finally. The reason that Iam writing this thread is Pls be confident ladies. There will be some opening god will give us and we will win over this situation. U all might have read my previous threads reg. Pcos and how I faced problems and sufferings. Deftly those who are trying for a kid god will deftly hear ur prayers. Keep Ayurveda also an option for fertility issues and it is totally based on my experience Iam writing. I thank you all for having considered me in TTC prayers forum.
     
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    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Congrats,glad that after the struggle you delivered.I admire your patience and faith in God.Hugs to you. Enjoy your motherhood
     
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    Congrats.Glad to see you and your hubby came out strong from this struggle.
     
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    Thank you so much for the response @iyerviji madam. Still I am in the recovery stage since I had csection. And thank you for nominating my thread which I didn't really expect. I wish ur blessings be there for me always.
     
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    Congrats Sweety..You deserved this happiness.Waiting for my turn of luck:)
     
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    Thank you @black beauty84 :)
     
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    Thank you @iamsrihere lots of baby dust to you.
     
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    Congrats..god is there to help u and give a beautiful prince to you..enjoy your life with your baby ..
     
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    My pleasure dear. Take care and all the best.v.God bless u
     
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    :hello:Perseverance, Persistence and Patience promoted you to triumphant MOTHERHOOD. wish your bony boy and your family all the best.
    It reminds me of a sports person LANS ARMSTRONG winning repeatedly the gruelling cycle marathon Tour De France.
    Thanks for sharing your hardships. God Bless Us All.
     
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