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  1. Thyagarajan

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    :hello:3M – Me, Mom & Milk

    It was Thillana Friday Night during Tamil month Marghayzhi (Dec-Jan) - concluding part of the Arengetram reaching its crescendo at Woodlands' lawn. Preceding this, moon-lit open air auditorium was reverberating with applause from invitees as the chief guest was garlanded who spoke showering platitudes on the Guru of my dancing sister.

    When we were about to board the pick-up-van, I saw mom clutching her stomach indicating onset of her monthly resting period. When she complained of her full-moon-triggered migraine head-ache, I understood the following week-end going to be hectic and it would begin collecting milk from vendor at around 5 A.M. It was during when city never heard of bottled or pouch-filled milk .

    It was 11 o'clock, When the van had reached us home in a small tenement proximate to beach known for its numerous temples, narrow by-lanes, and squalid dwellings with multiple tenants, bovines and mosquitoes.

    When I was attending seventh standard, my beloved mother had trained me in all aspects of household work. It came handy especially when she was suffering from migraine during those three days. I used to invariably manage single handed. It was effortless because of practise; and sister being younger and was spotted for award of scholarship for learning Bharatanatyam and apple of my eye, I seldom sought her help even though she offered. Week-ends, escorting her to dance class was used to be my priority and that helped as an onlooker to pick-up bit of dancing.

    So, the following day, I woke up at half past four to the alarm from west-end timepiece. Lazily I got up, pushed aside the cotton-mosquito-net and began tottering in dark, a tad carefully, not to trip over sleeping mother and sister on the floor. After arresting the alarm, I picked up the dedicated milk-container (pal thooku in Tamil) and ambled toward the entrance, when beloved mother in her cracked tone, muttered to tread carefully.

    I reached through cold misty dull-lit barren wide road to a bright-lit-shop in a dung filled dark lane; few men and a lady already gathered around a long broad wooden bench there.

    On seeing my presence from a distance, stocky Govalu rushed up. He was attired in colourful chequered lungi, white shirt with his head sporting a mundasu (a make-shift head gear made of long cotton material twisted along its length) and his ear-lobes donning golden studs. Readying for action, Govalu by sleight of his hand twirled above his head in air, a slim tall shining cylindrical container - a gesture to establish that container is empty.

    To mitigate Lakumi’s sorrow due to separation from her male calf that had expired a few days ago and to overcome possibly her poor lactation, Govalu had been bringing a dummy calf along; and while milking her, he used to keep it positioned so that it is in her view. This particular day he forgot to bring the dummy. Lifting the hem of lungi with his foot and hands, he folded it upwards above his half-pant and knotted it at his front. He sat awkwardly by the side of the cow holding obliquely top of the brass container between his knees beneath her udder.

    Distant rays from an incandescent lamp reflected in the large eyes of the Lakumi which were tear fully looking at lose heap of hay on the floor. The dark long lengthy shaky shadow of her cast on the floor and dummy calf conspicuous by its absence were foreboding approaching pandemonium.

    As he gently worked on her oiled teats between his thumb and index fingers of both hands, those at earshot invariably pleased as they could hear the jet of milk impacting on the inner wall of the container between his knees. That was precisely the moment, the stationary Lakumi seemed annoyed.

    The cow noticed absence of calf and in dither. She ignored the hay in front, moved tad slowly back and forth and with hoof of her hind left leg, gave a sharp kick on the face of Govalu who fell away on his back. The container fell out of his knees and rolled, jerking out copious water which instantly turned into rivulets on the floor.

    Lakumi now seemed a picture of aplomb, seemingly satisfied with double whammy that she had precisely awarded to her master for cheating her with dummy calf and the customers with adulterated milk. She then went about chewing the cold hay, while Govalu was twitching his cheek, limping due to bruises on his solar plexus. The tintinnabulation from a small metal bell tied to a black woollen cord around Lakumi’s neck was perhaps soothing injured Govalu & and me too!
     
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  2. Viswamitra

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    Dear Sri Thyagarajan:

    What a delightful description! No one would have better described this early morning hours of milk distribution better than you.

    You brought wonderful memories that are decades old when the milk was bought directly from the milk vendor drawing milk from the cows. I remember that tall aluminum can that they use. Perhaps 5 a.m. draw is intended for mixing water into the milk when there is no sunlight. I have seen those artificial calf made out of hays being carried by milkman.

    Lakumi seems to be aware of the tricks of Govalu to do such a noble act of kicking him even if we could assign the absence of her calf as the reason for her kick.

    Viswa
     
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    Wonderful narration! This was the case in everybody's home those days.Nice gesture of the cow!Your mail brings nostalgia of my younger days at village home.
    I would like to narrate a real time event in 1957, when I was in Pre University Class.
    We had three or four cows in our native home.We knew how to feed, give bath, and milk the cow, clean the cattle shed and all other aspects of cow upbringing,including preparation of cow dung cakes maixed with hay and chaff.

    On one such occasion our cow, Lakshmi by name gave birth to a beautiful calf.Unfortunately the calf died on the same day.We could not bear the loud cries of the cow, full of tears in its eyes.

    It so happened that in some other street in the same village, a mother cow died
    due to delivery complications. After consulting some experienced people my father decided to bring the calf home,of course after paying money.
    The calf was brought home and was made to stand in the front yard.My mother, with the instructions from the experienced man brought some betel leaves, omam, vasambu, a few pepper seeds, boiled brinjal and made into a nice paste in the manual grinding stone( ammi).It was mixed with a few drops of cow urine.As the delivery had taken place just 48 hrs back, the womb and birth canal were not closed fully.The man was able to take some four spoonfuls of fluid from the birth canal of the cow .It was mixed with the paste Amma prepared in grinding stone.The paste was totally smeared throughout the body of the young calf.
    So many neighbours assembled in our backyard cattle shed to see this. A few neighbours actually abused my father in trying to cheat a creature( vaayilla Jeevan). But my father knew what he was doing is good in the interest of mother and the babe.
    The calf was carried from the front yard.It was made to stand near the udders.For a few mts the cow never turned up.Still there were tears in its eyes.Slowly it had some smelling sensation.It started licking the calf. It appeared that the cow ensured that the baby was hers and born of her .( Normally cows do not allow other calves to suckle them) On account of the drugs, urine smell and fluid from birth canal smeared on the calf, the cow was made to feel that she had delivered the calf.Milk started flowing through udders and
    the cow started suckling the calf.Every one broke down on seeing this 'maatha-sishu-sangamam,a wonderful event that was staged in our house.Even neighbours who chided my father, showered praises on him. It is certainly a good gesture and thousand times better than the hay stuffed calf skin.
    We used to wonder this was the 'Adoption Process'(SWEEKAARAM) that was followed for centuries in villages where such deaths could not be avoided.
    The mother and calf lived in our house for some more years.

    Jayasala42
     
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    :hello:Quite an absorbing gripping informative feedback in bonding and relationship building. Thank you and Regards. God Bless Us All.
     
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    :hello:Thank you for the instant feedback and glad it was nostalgic. Thanks for compliments .Regards. God Bless Us All.
     
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    Nostalgia, indeed. We always had a cow and my mother used to milch her. I was may be four or five years old and I still remember standing besides the cow holding a metal glass in my hands, waiting for my mother to pour and fill it with fresh milk, scolding me at times though, which I used to gulp down then and there itself. The calf used to get a few shukings before and after the Milching.
    Nice write up. Loved it.
     
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    :hello:In continuation of my previous response, I consider your feedback would remain "NECTAR OF INFORMATION " and would remain outstanding in this thread. Thanks and regards.
     
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    :hello:@nandinimithun @PavithraS @Sunburst Thanks for viewing. Shall be grateful for your comments. Regards. God Bless Us All.
     
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    :hello:Glad indeed that you could enjoy the thread and thanks for sharing the way your mom made you drink milk warm & fresh! Regards. God Bless Us All.
     
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    Thank you . I enjoy reading all your blogs . This one brought back my childhood memories when we used to visit our native place . That was the only time I have seen cow rearing and milking so closely . When I read your blogs , I can envision very scene . Sometimes I feel like I am watching some old black and white movies or Malgudi days :). You have a flair for writing so please keep posting .
     
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