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Discussion in 'Friends & Neighbours' started by Vedhavalli, Apr 24, 2017.

  1. Vedhavalli

    Vedhavalli Platinum IL'ite

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    Yes, they are old friends...
    But it's happening every month..I hate the first friend who keeps telling to others that we are good hosts. These people think there is free Indian food, accommodation, with chai coffee, packed lunch.
     
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    Wish I could this
     
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    I think it's hard to go against your nature and habit of being a good host, but try to take off one thing at a time. Don't pack a lunch to go for them. Don't offer chai and coffee, just give them juice. Give them simple meal, nothing fancy. These people are pretty shameless, so I don't think you need to feel guilty to not provide these perks.
     
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    Have to tell NO, I can if they are my friends.
     
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    Sightseeing...
     
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    This time he clearly said we aren't available for the weekend. So they are coming in a midweek, so smarty
     
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    We told the same, we have plans for the weekend, so he is coming in midweek. He kept asking DH if we're really going out.
    He even texted asking if we all can go out on weekend. I said no got other plans.
     
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    Thinking to give cereal, bread.
    Thanks for Juice idea.
    No food from scratch, will get ready made rotis.
    Had enough.
     
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    Some think we are obligated to do service.
    But I doubt if they will do for us
     
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    Some don't split the bill, still thinking host has to pay. But it's one time, multiple times
     

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