Husband Is Losing Interest In Me And Taking Me For Granted

I assume you live with the inlaws ( so hats off to you for that ). The first step is to take a deep breath and tell yourself that you are the best irrespective of age, weight etc and that you don't need husband or anyone else to validate that. Be confident , dress well , learn to be happy with yourself. Find hobbies and interests that don't involve the husband. Join some classes, make friends outside , take up yoga. And during your journey of self discovery, please ignore the husband or the fact that he ignores you. For your birthday or special days , go treat yourself with whatever makes you happy. Ask the husband if he wants to come, if he sulks say TATA BIRLA BYE BYE and walk out with a smile. You will feel really empowered when your happiness is not in someone else's hands. Don't spend the rest of your life feeling unhappy and neglected. Take charge and give importance to yourself first. Hopefully with time things will get better, even if they don't you will not be as unhappy .
And don't be carried away by pics on social media.Happy couples don't need to show the world that they are happy and profess their love for each other in lengthy Facebook posts. They can do so in the privacy of their homes .
Just like your profile name, you need to be strong and everything else will be alright ! Wish you the best !

 

@Sandycandy great response there buddy also love the part about FB, I find it amusing when spouses wish each other on FB, I am like "dude, she is sitting right next to you! Why are you wasting your time on FB instead of looking into her eyes?"

 

Facebook is more of showoff!!!! I feel it crazy when husbands/wives share posts on each others wall........... do you remember this??? .. This is so us.................!!!! total crap!

 

you mean "so US", right?

ya, total showoff .. My fav recently was someone who posted on FB that his wife is the best mom in the world after 1 month of baby being born, with both set of parents helping them and also a daytime nanny & cook! Also, the kissing pics of spouses are my favorite! could the ppl care any less ??

 

I have a list of funny things that i get to see on fb.........Many of the couples from our neighborhood who are Indianans have been following this craziness of posting on fb wall....when wife is travelling to india on vacation..." Bye chinnu , happy journey , miss you chinnu". The immediate next hour of dropping family to airport we have seen them partying hard

 

And the total madness lies in clicking pics and posting on fb.... I have seen people who instead of enjoying some place, waste time clicking n posing just to post on fb.

 

Haha ! that is very funny.. I hope chinnu is not on ILs

 

Dear OP, hope we could bring atleast a smile on your face, if not the solution to your problem.. Pls excuse our digression...

 

OP, I agree with Sandycandy...Dont give the key to your happiness to anyone.. create a life for yourself and enjoy it... if husband is ignoring ignore him and be happy in your world.. once he find that you don't need him for happiness he may become curious and try to comeback.
All discussions for attention-, you have already did it- won't help. He may find you "clingy" all the time..but don't him to escape from his duties or day today jobs in home. My thoughts are on the emotional part.

So be happy and cheerful without him, at least act like that. Try to build your own friend circle.. you are beautiful the way nature created. Be confident about yourself. Confidence will enhance your beauty.

Regarding facebook-dress well, hug or kiss dh , take a selfie or photo with full smile,post it on Facebook... with a caption "with ..love of my life or hero of my dreams.." .. if that make you happy... Facebook is mostly fakebook