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Emotional Abuse In Marriage

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by BhumiBabe, May 8, 2017.

  1. Sunshine04

    Sunshine04 Platinum IL'ite

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    cps gets involved
     
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    New to this forum. Just wanted to wish you good luck, OP. Perhaps you should think keeping a packed bag with some essentials for you and your kid in a trusted person's house in case you need to move out in a hurry for your own safety. When the realisation hits your hubby that you will be moving out with your kid and he will have to pay child support, things may turn nasty.
     
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    Speechless.
     
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    No need to go from one horrible situation to another. Let her enjoy some calm and freedom for some time. It shall take her many years to recover from this shock.
     
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    I agree, I am very stressed out and scared about the reaction. I wish the process is fast and painless - my body can't handle this stress. But I have to be very diliberate with each step and make sure to cover my bases.
     
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    Thank your lucky stars you live in the West. If you were in India, they would have eaten you alive.
     
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    It is not hard, problem is it doesn't work. I threatened, I called as well, but could not gather courage to say to them anything, I said it happened by mistake and kept the phone down. Then recently the fighting was so bad that the neighbor threatened to call, then too it was me who was the culprit, because "I should have forseen it". 911, hitting back, threatening to leave - do not work, either keep it or break it and leave. The only solution to this problem - try to get as independent as possible, take charge of everything and focus on your job. You will find a way then.
     
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    What path have you chosen?
     
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    Exactly! I don't want to think about any future relationships. While it's fascinating and I do dream that I will get that, I need time to heal myself, get myself on track, and focus on my son's life.
     
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    Probably. Even now, I've made my decision but the execution is still up in the air...I am scared out of my mind. I have my parents support, and the stress level is insane. My teeth hurt from the stress...which is weird but I can't seem to relax my face.
    Part of me is thinking, ****, am I ruining everyone's life? And the other part's like, don't care, get me outta here, asap.

    I started looking for places to live for the next few months and what to do about childcare...
     

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