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Can I Bust My Mil?

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by Reena26, Nov 22, 2016.

  1. Reena26

    Reena26 Bronze IL'ite

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    if you read my previous threads you will know of all my MIl issues.

    Something came to light when talking to DH about her next visit. When she applied for a passport and Visitor visa for Usa, she used a false dob from the one on her birth certificate based on falsified school records 50 yrs prior.

    The Birthday she celebrates is not the one on passport and visa. So she lied for passport and visa. Is it a crime in India? Can she be reported if orig birth certificate "not available"?
     
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  2. Rakhii

    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    You can report her. Question, is do you really want to? You know that there is every possibility they will find out its you right?
     
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    Reena26 Bronze IL'ite

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    I don't intend to report her yet. But I want to know what I can do in the future because she has tried to kick me out of my house and sending me to my parents etc. I want to know how to turn the tables on her if she does this or tries to get a green card and kick me out.
     
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    sunshine1970 Gold IL'ite

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    I would think twice that is a very mean thing to do, I would not suggest it.
     
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    Reena26 Bronze IL'ite

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    I would not do it. It is up to her sons to deal with it. But she got a passport and visa with false information which is illegal.
     
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    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    stop and think how this will affect your relationship with your husband before even thinking twice about it. Dont do it.
     
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    JustAnotherMom Platinum IL'ite

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    Talking to myself: God, where the world is moving to. No wonder these days people says its better to have daughters!!
     
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    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    I lost you here
     
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    sbonigala Platinum IL'ite

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    Did you think about how this idea of "busting your MIL" is going to damage your relationship with your husband for lifetime ?

    She may be nasty and bad, but you cannot deny the fact that she is your husband's mum. I am not sure if the move to stop a mum from visiting her son is right. If you have problems with her, ask your husband to support you or ask your husband to fix the issue between you two women. But trying to play around with the legalities of visa is not quite right. Who knows, you guys might be in trouble too for funding such falsified person to enter a foreign country !
     
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    curiousgals78 Gold IL'ite

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    Hi Reena,
    I completely understand how you are feeling about your MIL. but dont try using legal issues. this is going to be huge ordeal on your hubby too for bringing in with false information. please sort them out with your hubby directly.
     

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