In Tamil, neram kaalam vandhaal thirumanam nadakkum! But not like the ones you had thought, it should happen with the person whom you like or start to like after marriage!
aigoo i dint think like that... likes or not i thought without me liking it ... i thought it in that way
Glad to know that you are also adjusting type , youngsters of today dont understand that and want their own way. Thats why now a days so many marriages get cancelled after engagement.In our days we did not know about the person we married but still adjusted ourselves not only with him but also with their family. Elders have said its in thewoman's hands to keep the family happy after marriage. Avadhum pennale azhivadhum pennale. By the time the youngsters of today understand it will be very late and they will repent for that. I know youngsters wont like my saying like this but it is a truth. If parents in law dont interfere in their life the dils are very happy and say my parents in law are very nice. There are youngsters who also adjust because they dont wwant to earn a bad name for their parents and patiently go through everything