buying toy secretely

Iamagoodgirl · Jan 20, 2016

Is there anyone here who have been using toy to please them self?Where do you buy that stuff in india without anybody noticing?

I have higher drive than my husband.When we were newly married it wasnt much of a problem.Now he has started new business and he is continuous under pressure to settle business as early as possible.

I dont blame him.But my anger start rising as whole day he is busy in meetings and at the end of the day instead of coming to bedroom he want to see big boss on tv till late night.I have given up asking him about it.I dont want to pressurize him for it.

I just want to be independent.Problem is live with inlaws also husband is against buying anything like that.

my mil and sil are nosy they sometime go through my cupboard. i want something which i can hide in locker.lol

Gauri03 · Jan 21, 2016

I thought of a gross joke after reading your title, but I will keep my big mouth shut.:rotfl :biggrin2:

I don't know where you could buy such toys in India but you could Google for a 'personal massager', 'sensual massager' or 'electric massager'. That's the 'technical' terminology. Amazon.com has a ton of options and many sellers do ship globally. Also try Amazon.in and Ebay. Search for options from Hitachi or Philips. Hitachi makes a really popular model.

iswaryadevi · Jan 21, 2016

Sorry, no inputs but when I saw the thread title trending, I was perplexed why would one buy a toy for his/her child secretly :roll: which made me click this thread. Read the first 2 lines and I was totally lost. Had to re-read the forum name I was in to understand the context :hide:

@ OP, hope you find something! :thumbsup

thegirlygirl · Jan 21, 2016

To my knowledge its banned in India.

Gauri03 · Jan 21, 2016

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To my knowledge its banned in India.
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Not banned per se. But there are always a bunch of prudish uncleji's with nothing better to do than file PILs to safeguard our morality. :bang These same men will lech and drool at every woman within a 5 mile radius, but of course they must dictate what we do in our bedrooms! Archaic laws on obscenity are twisted and contorted to sue vendors into submission.

OP I found this for you -- MasalaToys

RIP my search history!

Rihana · Jan 21, 2016

hai rey kismet Bharatiya naari ki (oh the fortune of the Indian woman) Much easier to be a good girl than a bad. Gauri's tips to amazon.in had me go search, and good Lord it was jarring to see price in Rs. Some thinking about the thoughts shed light - it felt too close to home.. kinda like the time a friendly neighborhood kid explained to us what our mummy daddy did to make us.

OP, you could find a friend whose address you can use to order online?

dimhere · Jan 21, 2016

Gauri03 said: ↑

I thought of a gross joke after reading your title, but I will keep my big mouth shut.:rotfl :biggrin2:
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Please tell me that your joke was on the word "secretely".

'Cause I thought of one too!

OP, um.. how do I put this? You don't really need toys, you know.

Some fantasy, and clean hands, and incognito mode while browsing some websites, could be sufficient.

Safest, and nosy FIL wouldn't know!

Gauri03 · Jan 21, 2016

dimhere said: ↑

Please tell me that your joke was on the word "secretely".
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Yup! OP made a Freudian slip! :mrgreen:

Iamagoodgirl · Jan 21, 2016

Gauri03 said: ↑

Not banned per se. But there are always a bunch of prudish uncleji's with nothing better to do than file PILs to safeguard our morality. :bang These same men will lech and drool at every woman within a 5 mile radius, but of course they must dictate what we do in our bedrooms! Archaic laws on obscenity are twisted and contorted to sue vendors into submission.

OP I found this for you -- MasalaToys

RIP my search history!
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thanks but prices are in thousands?:shock:

Gauri03 · Jan 22, 2016

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thanks but prices are in thousands?:shock:
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I checked the website and I think their prices are severely inflated. They most likely import stuff and pass the costs on to their customers. To be honest you get what you pay for. The cheapest I've seen are $15-20 and not worth a dime. If you want something that's worth its price, then you should expect to shell out at least $50. You'll probably be better off buying on Amazon.com and getting it shipped internationally. A lot of sellers will do that if you email them.