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Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by coolpinky, Mar 6, 2013.

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  1. Dec 2, 2013 #6541
    sweetypi

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    Or given him a hug and said " Lucky for me that my DH is modern enough to understand that we should leave behind sexist ideas to where they belong --- 50 yrs ago"
     
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  2. Dec 2, 2013 #6542
    shantana

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    typical new bride syndrome... gigglingsmiley
     
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  3. Dec 2, 2013 #6543
    shantana

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    hey vini... feel like hugging u... hugsmiley
    worldwide sils and mils are all the same?... especially dils are bonded to do seva for their pils and dils are exempted from the bond? why why why???
     
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  4. Dec 2, 2013 #6544
    chillbreeze

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    Yes..:iagree Wish I've found IL before..that would've made me lot wiser.
     
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  5. Dec 2, 2013 #6545
    ardhra

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    My vent -

    I am taking 1 tablet everyday for thyroid... That too has normalized.. but have to continue taking..

    MIL : If DW is healthy then DH will save lots and lots of money... Otherwise, he'll be spending lots of money on her only
    Me : ....
    MIL : See, I was so healthy. So, DH never worried on my health and we lead a good life. Nowadays girls are very sensitive.. They want to take tablets for everything.. Thats why DH cant save money.. Also, these days girls spend so much on clothes and other stuff... They'll make their DH pauper
    Me : Olden days girls used to not work. So, they used to buy 2 clothes for 1 year. Now a days, we work and we cant have only 2 clothes.. Anyway, if DH is getting pauper, DW will not buy so much
    MIL : No, gorls are concentrated only on money
    Me : ...
    MIL : You have some problem na.. You are taking meds.. I was so healthy... even during my pregnancy, I had not changes except for pregnant belly... If you get pregnant then the child also will be weak as You are weak... The tabs will actually kill you
    Me : All this will happen when I get pregnant na.. Then, if I am not well, you are there to take care of me Mom.. You have always considered me as your DD
    MIL : :) ya, I'll take care... But, you are very weak...
    Me : got some work.. will leave..

    Hey, this negatives is driving me crazy... I know even if I die, that would not be because of Hypothyroidism... But because of this torture... :rant:bang


    To add to all this, I am paying for all my medical expenses...
     
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  6. Dec 2, 2013 #6546
    chillbreeze

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    1. As per mil, even if we buy what we want from our money, it''ll be wasting her DS's money, and we are careless in spending and don't know the value of money.
    2. When dil gets a baby, though the kid will be her grandchild and her DS's son, the kid may be weak because dil is his/her mother. I wonder why they have to shower negativity on even an unborn child. Couple of days back, fil bought papaya. He told me not to eat, coz its not supposed to be good for TTC ladies. Mil in background, anyway she won't conceivd now..so she can eat, no issues. :rant
     
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  7. Dec 2, 2013 #6547
    coolpinky

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    Not Better Half. Better 1/4thbtt
    The rest 3/4th is their family.
     
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  8. Dec 2, 2013 #6548
    chillbreeze

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    If I may ask: Does this bother you. I also pay for my medical/other expenses myself and I wonder sometimes what will happen if I quit my job. (Reply not required if you feel this comment is inappropriate.)
     
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  9. Dec 2, 2013 #6549
    coolpinky

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    Your DH tooooooo.doh1
    I thought mine is the only one.
     
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  10. Dec 2, 2013 #6550
    chillbreeze

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    If 1/4th of DH is wife and 3/4th is family, where is his original selfthinkingsmiley
     
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