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  1. Maddy2087

    Maddy2087 Platinum IL'ite

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    Hi all,

    I am posting few videos on domestic violence,marital rape ,Financial and emotional violence. If you happen to relate to any of the videos posted then its time to act. Every woman deserves love not violence. Stay strong ,be positive, fight back. Hope this helps and is an eye opener.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wH7hGqTKTZQ - Domestic Violence
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Ya3ra8G_S8 - Marital rape
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oNERoEWbcNI - Financial and emotional violence


    With love,
    Maddy
     
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    Hi All,

    I hope few of you might have seen the videos. Are you able to relate to any one of the above ? Is it possible to share your feelings here so that others can also relate and save themselves from horrendous domestic crime ? Its just a request not a necessity.Hope you all support me in this.

    To start with i would like to share my feelings about this. I have personally experienced all the above in my marriage. Scenes of such manner break the innermost soul of a being and takes a lot of strength to resurrect things back to normal. DV is still a taboo in our society , many refrain from disclosing fearing what the society will think about the individual and also the family.Many woman are stuck in baseless and cruel relationships thinking marriage is the end of the world. Do you really think marriage is the end of the world or its the innermost freedom,respect and happiness which matters the most ? In my opinion happiness , respect and freedom stands at the top of my list. How about you all , what will you all prefer ? Honest answers please.
     
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    The power and control wheel . Do you daily face this situation in life ? Time to act .

    dv2.jpg
     
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    DV.jpg

    Isn't the statistic alarming ?

    Domestic violence is a skeleton inside the closet. It’s such a sad state that many women are exploited in the name of marriage and society. Do we really deserve this? Are we not supposed to be brave and give abuser’s their gift of walking out? Every woman deserves only love, respect and happiness. Say NO to domestic violence. Stop getting abused because you own only two things in this lifetime “your mind and your soul”. If you find yourself in an abusive relationship then PLEASE intervene and stop the cycle right now because violence can NEVER STOP.
     
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    Appreciate your efforts maddy.
     
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    I have watched the videos for domestic violence. I have to say it is time for changes to happen. What gives a man a right to be violent to the woman doesn't she bear his children? Doesn't she cook the food and clean the house? Does he percieve that she is nothing? Then he can do it all himself if he thinks that he is superior to her.
     
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    This is truly an eye-opener.

    By this yardstick, sadly, I feel not many Indian marriages are happy or healthy as we are led to believe.
    I forwarded it to some of my friends and they've all come to the same conclusion.

    An invaluable chart, thanks very much for sharing this, Maddy.
     
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    Except Intimidation, Sexual and Physical abuse, i have faced all the others in the Power and Control wheel .... Maybe i could have come out of the marriage earlier, had i realised it long back!!

    Nice one Maddy ....
     
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    Thanks a lot for the encouragement all :)
     
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    In Support
     

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