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  1. Mar 2, 2008 #1
    ansh12

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    Hi friends

    I am attcahing an article, which talks about failed marriages when one has been in love with a person. This is very thought provoking and full of optimism.

    Please do read and let me know whether you loved reading it.

    Looking forward to ur responses
    Ansh
     

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  2. Mar 2, 2008 #2
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    Hey Ansh,

    Though the topic does not suit me, could not resist commenting...

    Love, the emotion as expressed by Tennyson, and by Diana about her relationships with Dodi i endorse it fully....It is always a risk..but a risk if not taken you never understand what is so special about it....
    ‘Tis better to have loved and lost
    Than never to have loved at all.

    I can say I have married for love, I can vouch for the few sentences from the passage...
    Love sharpens our senses and mental faculties. It increases our capacity for giving as well as receiving emotion. Love brings with it enlightenment and a lightness of being. And when love creeps away, it leaves us with a depth of emotion that is just as meaningful and necessary to our existence, to the very fabric of our lives...

    For the past 15+2 years I have learnt it the most beautiful way with all the ups and downs, with thorns as well as roses..
     
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    dear ansh,
    heal my child heal is all i can say here, it is too raw and all these articles are appreciated because u r going through a period of gap of being loved and not beind loved, the taste of love is so good that even with a lot more poison woman and men dont mind drinking it, even if it kills, so love is too good to be poisened is what i am trying to say here, so i want u to think beautiful things, apart from what u go here, it is better for you to come out of this mental state fast and enjoy love reads too...sunkan
     
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    Dear sunkan ma'am

    Your reply brought tears to my eyes, it seemed as if I am talking to my mom or my elder sis. I think this emotional side of mine is root cause of all my problems. Tears come effortlessly in my eyes.

    I will surely try to overcome my state of mind.I am trying

    Thanks
    Ansh

     
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    hey ansh,

    I know you are growing through a bad patch,but i also know that you are a strong one...

    So i had to give a positive look to the same angle..that is why i had to tell about mine...

    No intentions of hurting your feelings yaar...
     
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    Hi Shanvy

    I am not hurt, I was just posting a reply to u when connection snapped.

    I yo-yo ing between whether to contact that person or wait and watch.

    But from my experiences, I can say no-one ever returned to me, I waited for my husband thinking that he will realise my goodness and come back, he married without even divorcing me and now this person...

    I forgive very easily, but I have never been forgiven.

    "It is said one get get what one deserves, but what one gets is destiny"

    Don't feel bad about anything. I loved your post.

    Best wishes and tons of love
    Ansh





     
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    Hi Shanthi

    Read ur thread, its really thought provoking.

    Mywediing anniversary falls in march, at times inspite of my best efforts, I can't avoid thinking of the day.

    That'w hy I write humorous articles at times.

    Love
    Ansh
     
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    Ansh,

    I am not going to say i am sorry. It is a decision you took boldlyBow..now don't regret it...Move forward...you come across a person with a strong spirit....

    Jisko hamara kadr nahi..
    uspey kyon aasoon bahana..
    zindagi mein aur bhi hai..
    jo hamare ek muskaan khi
    intezaar mein..
    thoda nazar uthakey dekho yaara,
    sara zamana hai tere saath mein...
     
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    Well said Shanthi

    Thnaks you didn't say sorry, I would have indulged in self-pity.

    Everyone has weak momentsa and I too have mine. i am feeling better now.

    Thnaks for cheering me up
    Ansh



     
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