Suggestion pls

Hi puzzled123, first of all you say that you are an IT person. If you were an IT person then you would know there is a spam folder and all spam emails go into that. I dont know why do you read emails sent by unwanted names. Are they related to your job. If not then juz open it and mark it as spam. Do not go into the full reading of it. Once you have ignored that Z person then do not think about him at all. Because what he is trying to do is Putting a fire in a good relationship which you are not actually trying to see it or do not wanna see.

Also I don't think that your BF has complete trust in you. If he had then he wouldn't have stopped talking with you if you spoke to this Z friend of yours. But this should have been cleared before making marriage. There is a proverb (Ab Chidiya chukh gayi kheth to pachtana kya) something like that. So its better just ignore that Z guy and flush yr brains with all his memories please. Think he is no one otherwise that would soon bring complications in your daily love life.

 

5 years is too much time. Stay away from trouble. He doesn't sound normal to me.

 

gud dat u r truthful to ur BF... he seems to be understanding...hold on to him... its not a mistake to be friends with other guys, but u shud noe wer to draw a line, especially wen u r committed... no self respecting guy will bother a girl even after knowing that she is committed... maybe trying once is acceptable, but if he tries to get back to u again n again, its totally wrong on his part... gud dat u have cut him off... dont feel sorry for him, if u respond to his mail he is just gonna think dat u still haven't forgotten him, its only gonna encourage him more... keep ur BF informed at all times, wat is happening... dont let the trust between u guys break!!
tk care...

 

I think he is a loser and he might create problems for you in the future. Please break all contacts

 

Hey dear... good that your BF knows about it all. Never hide anything from your BF, else i t might lead to some argument one way or another after marriage.

Your friend is hurt bad and may be he is stalkin you, which of course is not good. If he really loved you, he should have understood about your feelings. But I guess more than love, it is just jealousy and possesivenss.

Be aware of facebook id's n all social sites. He might be able to tag you through them. No matter whatever unknown emails you want to read or calls you want to make, make sure your BF is with you while you are doing that.

If anything ever like this happens to you again, call or email, ask your BF to reply back using bad words or kick him.

In my case, my DH (who was also my only BF) used to literally hunt down guys if he came to know that anyone is mis behaving with me. :bonk

 

You have not done any mistake. He is a person who is not able to accept the fact and that is the reason he is trying all possible ways to talk to you,etc...please avoid his mails.. Put it in spam... And be peaceful... Your life is important don't spoil your peace and happiness...

 

wel if u dun wnt ne more communication from him,just block him.