Wishing good things

sorry this is long post. But if you want to know the bottom line of this post, then jump to the purple lines in the last.

ok. So my last post had a lot of depressive thoughts, frustation, sadness, yada yada yada and many of you also did not like my thread tittle as it was too depressing. So I thought of creating a new thread which will refelct positivity in the thread as well as in my and all Il's lifes. This could or could not be inspring to others who are also victimised by the mother-son love.

If I (such a big emotional fool) can try to become independent and that too after seperating from 6yrs of love and 3 yrs of marriage then any other girl/woman can definetely stand up on her feet to raise her voice for her own rights , against selfish behaviour or try things for herself her own happiness. Trust me if I can, then you DEFINITELY can.

ok. enough of bragging about myself. Now let me tell you the reason behind this bragging. Well as you might have guessed that my mood looks somewhat good now, the reason behind this is my DH came home yesterday (Sunday). He had called me on Saturday and I was out doing shopping stuff for decorating my house and grocery shopping, and he asked me where was I.

As I was super pissed that my MIL got LED TVs, I told him that I was out for buying TV. He was like oo..aa.. hmm.. wwas trying to help me find a TV and I too told him oo..aaa...hmmm and told him that I dont need any help. If I can manage to live alone, I sure can manage to buy Tv also alone. No big deal. He did not call me at night to see if I reached home safely or not (which I normally expect), but did call me Sunday morning asking if I bought Tv or not.

I told him no, I will try to fix my old one with laptop (and he knows very well I am very bad in all this). So while I was busy Sunday morning cleaning my apartment and decorating it with stuff I bought Saturday, my cell phone rang and too filmy but I somehow felt that my DH is down, so I picked up phone and rushed towards balcony and there he was

He came, no huggings as usual (this time I also did not hug him), but he just told that he came here to fix my Tv with laptop (well he got a big bag of wires along with him and his small bag of clothes ) and started with all his engineering on TV.

So I cooked his fav dishes and he ate it so gladly and happily (obviously after all home made food is the best). Then we went out for shopping again. came home, I cookeed and packed food for him to take for entire week. He was very happy with that. Then at night we just watched some TV and went off to sleep. And today morning he left.

All an all I am a little happy that I got to see him, be with him and that he could eat home made food. Also I had completely forgotten about, he reminded -- this coming weekend we had a pre planned travel and reservation to an event. So hopefully if all goes well, we will be together this weekend again.

But to make all this above possible, support me in my toughest times, wish for me, pray for me,guide me etc etc, I really really really want to THANK all of you. and I just wish that all good things happen to all of us.


I will surely keep all of you posted with what happens next. But I just hope, wish and pray that only good things happen from now on to all of us. I had enough of suffering, infact most of us had more than enough of our share of suffering. But not any more.

So ladies stand up and daily atleast tell and do just one thing to yourself and us also what would you do or did that made you happy today atleast for sometime (inspite of the regular third degree tortures received from xxx --uhhh I dunt even want to mention the name who and spread any negativity). An attempt to do so itself is a big motivator in our lives. I want this thread to be motivating for all of us. So lets share our happiness to and let us smile for ourselves.

I wish you all the good luck, love and happiness you deserve.


So here goes what will make me happy today (despite of my current whinning) --
I am a big food lover, so I will cook something special for me today (and anyways it had been ages I did that for myself). May be Chicken biryani or Chicken chilly
Hmm... see now I can spend atleast half of my day thinking about what to cook and surf net for recipes.

Your turn now :thumbsup



PS: After all we deserve some happiness for ourselves too. We work, we love, we care, we sacrifice, we make others priorities as ours etc etc, but still we donot even get a simple smile in return. So why long or wait for someone else to make us smile. Let us make ourselves smile. All it takes is just opening lips and showing teeth