Sweety's Diary : A B'lore (Wipro) techie's wife ended her life...Wanna know Why?

It's very touching and sad....to see a life wasted this way...

we need to bring up girls to be strong and fight tough times in life and to see that marriage is not the goal of life ...

 

Girl was too naive. That scumbag husband and his girlfriend must be jailed.

 

realy its a very sad inccident..how come she did suicide?? as its not he fault.. she should fight for her rites..

 

The girl is so innocent.

We educated with degrees just do not know how to handle any such real life situations. Parents protect us all their lifes till we are with them and one fine day decide to send us with some unknown guy and life is like left in woods to find our way out.

 

I really pity the girl and her family!!!! why waste one life over some crappy guy who doesnt understand what is the imp of marriage/relationship or someone who loves him. is it really worth to kill ourselves for such a man???

sorry may sweetys soul rest in peace...but she died for no cause!!! and this guy mikku/tikku who ever he is...he will never feel remorse over this.


This should be an eye opener for all the girls, who say ok to marriage, inspite of knowign the fact that their would be put lot of conditions/pressure/demands even before the wedding and start bullying their would be wives. why do women take that even before the real wedding happened??? if women take decisions with heart and go blind in love...this is bound to happen.

On what basis can the parents of sweety file a case on this guy??? sweety was showing all signs of depression and feeling lonely...instead of leaving this guy and filing a cheating case...she gave more pain to her parents n brother.

 

Now that I read this twice, I realize that suicide was not due to dowry harassment. It was because the girl was way to depressed and didnt know where to look for help. She clearly said that she is taking her life not because of her inaws or Tikku guy. I think her parents are fighting a lost cause. There doesn't seem to be a base for dowry harassment.

Man...these extra marital affairs i tell ya, it comes to no good.

 

I don't have words to express what she must be going through when she decided to commit suicide...
may her soul rest in peace...

 

Yes even today I realize that being sensitive n weak doesnt really work in this world.Even if anyone dies the world doesnt change..Its still the same..Really its a mistake to love someone who doesnt deserve it..Now that guy is free from all troubles and must be celebrating..Some people are really B.....

 

This is so sad, My heart is aching with pain....This is very common situation in almost half of the marriages, except the reasons may not be exactly the same...
but parents should please raise your daughters to be strong, marriage is not everything.. Good education, good exposure, problem solving skills, should be taught to make the kids confident. Self-Confident people will never allow others to take advantage of them. Who can hurt you if you wont allow them to hurt you. Anything can happen in life, we cant say, but prepare the kids to face this.

That husband and inlaws are definitely villians, but what happened to the parents and sweety... spending too much on weddings, buying gifts which you cannot afford, looking at daughters as their responsibility, and forcing them to stay in a bad marriage should be avoided. You can understand their behaviour even before marriage when they were not compromising on dowry, and gifts , and if he is loving her, why he is taking dowry?
According to me, the biggest mistake here is done by sweety, how can she waste her life for a person like him, how can she love him even if he cheats her and treats her like trash. This is not love, this is the influence of films. Love should and will come from both the sides, unless you are living in some imaginary world. Sorry if i am sounding rude,She encouraged him in some way, , but i feel very bad, my eyes are filled with tears after reading her dairy.

And bad people are everywhere, One should learn to deal with all kinds of people. If you allow them, they will take advantage of you obviously, why did you allow them in the first place, dont you respect yourself. Before loving others, learn to love yourself and be realistic. This isthe truth.

 

By the way who is this Ramya girl which Asti mentioned in her diary (the girl this guy was having affair with???)

again we have a thread on EMA...knowing the fact that Astis husband was married, still that other lady had affair with him?? instead of kicking him out of her life??

why are women becoming soooo neeedy of men??? I understand wanting to have love and relationship...but what is this love where a guy gets to have one women legally and another illegally??? and why are both women letting it happen? why not kick the guy out and show him his place??

so really is only the mani.e husband to be blamed here???why no mention of the other lady?? who is the indirect cause of all the heartache and mental trauma??