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Love is Blind And Stupid

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by Kamalji, May 31, 2011.

  1. Kamalji

    Kamalji IL Hall of Fame

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    Dear Swati,

    yes, no father or parents should be subjected to such humiliation by their children.

    Regards

    kamal
     
  2. ambika04

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    Dear Kamalji,
    [JUSTIFY]One has to understand what love means before getting married.Cinematic love doesn't last long.Majority of the cases filed for divorce last year are not known to their parents.Parents have no knowledge about their children divorce cases.Married without parents consent so divorced too without their knowledge(Must be Newton's 4th law)Think about the parents plight[/JUSTIFY].
     
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    True eye opener to those who go against their parents..
    atleast they shd see these examples and become aware of the people who cheat
     
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    Dear Kamalji,

    In this case it is very sad that a daughter sought to publicly humiliate her father. This should not happen to one's enemy.

    As for love being blind and stupid, Kamalji, marriage is a gamble under any circumstances. Even arranged marriages, where parents consider all factors that are important to the children's well-being go dreadfully wrong. And then the daughter is pressurized to carry on with the marriage for reasons of "what will society say". Ultimately, love marriage or arranged marriage, matched or mismatched (in terms of looks, wealth, education, whatsoever) may work or fail drastically. It is all a matter of luck.
     
  5. Srama

    Srama Finest Post Winner

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    Kamlaji, I just remembered this today - "But love is blind, and lovers cannot see.The pretty follies that themselves commit." -- Shakespeare from The Merchant of Venice - in this case atleast one of them could not see and it turned out to be "love is blind, and marriage is the eye-opener"
     
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    This shows the extent of stupidness,love can get lovers to !

    Lovers dare to do anything unsensible & infringe,because that's the spirit of being in love,when they believe everything they do is right.Others are dunce,they don't know the flame of love !


    Pinky
     
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    So very true and this has happened time and again Kamalji, only that it is not in the news :hide:
    The daughter of rich parents, married a well educated and decent boy from the middle class. It was all sweet until the girl decided to divorce him just a few months later. The incident that led to it was very simple(at least to us). She had wanted to buy a saree which would cost the boy's one month salary. The boy had truly loved her and had not refused to buy it, but had put it off, for the next few months, so that he would be able to afford it. She had walked out saying if he could not afford her the one thing that she had asked for(not that she had not asked for anything else during this period, the poor guy was almost bankrupt tending to her demands), there was no point in the marriage. The boy and his family were devastated. The girl happily married another rich man a few months later and has a child now. Whatever happened to the poor boy I do not know :hide:
     
  8. Kamalji

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    Dear Ambika,

    Sorry for the late reply

    You mean couples here get divorced without their parents knowing ?

    Strange really, this what u are saying. Newtons 4th law eh ! HAHA.

    poor fellow must be turning in his grave reading this.

    Regards

    kamal
     
  9. Kamalji

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    Dea r Pupalla,

    Yes we must see around and learn what not to do from these examples.

    Regards

    kamal
     
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    Dear Satchi,

    Yes children should not humilate their parents, i know many kids who say, so what is the big deal if they gave birth to us, it is their duty, and now we are adults, we aer free to do what we want.

    they forget , that unlike the US, here we dont throw out the kids when they are 18, and telll them to work or styudy with their ownhard earned money.

    We pay for their highter education,we spend on their marriages, we give in marriage, they stand to inherit, that too by law, so there is some sense of duty towards yr parents.

    Marriages, if not based on dowry, or love marriage, can work , if both work hard at it, and compromise and adjust, otherwise either can fail.Masrriage has to be taken as a serious commintment, not as a frviolous one, just as we are serious about our work, how we adjust the new enviorment, boss and collegues, takes time to adjust, same with marriage.

    Thanks.

    kamal
     

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