Oh yes definitely happywife.we can overcome our past bad karma and life our life peacefully.there are many resource available like astrilogy,naadi joshiyam,etc....but u shd be very carefull approching them.Dont worry iam here to help u.so more questions are welcome.if am able to answer i will.according to me,basically iam very religious and totally believe in god.its like,every step a living being keep ahead is only becoz of god.so i faced my difficult days(my bad karma) with full of faith and confidence that my kula deivam will not leave me in any of my bad times.now iam very peacefull though iam blessed with a special child.I approached naadi joshiyam which ollai chuvadi said all the truth.so it depends on peoples beleif and faith.
Yes I definitely understand that everyone is born with their bad and good karma regardless which month they are born in. What I am trying to clarify is could it be that those born in 'Adi' and 'Chithirai' have done more bad karma and would suffer more in their life and some need to face big losses (like losing one's spouse or child at a very early age) in their life compared to others born in different months? I am sure God has gifted you with a special child knowing you being such a positive person will be able to give the child a good life.
upto my knowledge,my answer to u r question is NO.any month u born u have to face u r bad and good karma.months are not responsible for that. BE HAPPY
You know, though all these are misconceptions, never do something you're not comfortable with, because later, even if a small mishap happens, like if the kid falls down while playing and has a minor bruise, your mind will immediately panic and associate it with these misconceptions(cant help it). Karma is what it is no matter what time a person is born. Whatever a person has to undergo will happen no matter he/she is born a month ahead or later. However, your mind needs to be at peace and relaxed while ttc and later as well, so do what your mind and heart says, no matter it is scientifically/philosophically correct or incorrect :thumbsup.
Dear SadWife, I was too shocked on seeing ur thread in this forum. From the entire conversation I felt, how much you are affected by the old superstition. Though my reply is too late, I felt I should reply. See, Don't trust too much on astrology and all. All good and bad things depends on us. The way we think about anything or anybody will greatly affect that. For going-to-be-moms, my kind advise is to think positively during your pregnancy period. Avoid thinking negatively, to argue with others, or thinking always about bad people and all. What I am trying to say here is, whatever you think it wil affect the baby ...and not the stars. So stay happy and think positive. those positive vibrations wil lead ur lovable kid in gud way in his/her future. All d best. Hope u might hav got a kid by this tym.. its 2013 right!!!! be happy moms...
Sadwife, Do you mean if the babies are not born in these months will gaurantee your husband and you to live 100 years?? if thats the case why do want have a baby.. that itself a problem.. you will have sleepless nights.. and anything can happen for your life during ur delivery time.. and tension in life to take care of baby.. while going to school/ going outside.. Isn't it a good idea for you not planning for the baby for whole life.. so that these challenges in the life wont be there... Just kidding in life we will always have risks.. there nobody can guarantee anyone life with out any problem.. thinking abt this kind of superstitious thoughts are waste of time.. and you should know one thing even though you plan for your pregnancy during except these months.. Finally its god's grace.. if he doesn't approve your request.. Definitely you wont get pregnant.. so just forget about these thoughts.. and enjoy your life to the maximum and have a lovely kid soon..