Why do the women from India show attitudes towards those Indians born here?

I agree with you Women here have attitude problem,,honestly these women are empty from within
got all this from green in the bank more or less just bcoz of money they show all this attitude
i have gr8 group of friends and i keep seeing girls coming from rural part of india earned their
degree in I.T and working in nyc makes them fly on the 7th sky.
Unfortunately i don't work i bcoz i am taking care of my baby and this fact that i don't work
makes them feel superior to me they tell me get a job i can get a job within an hr but for
them ur per annum salary makes more of a difference.

TIP:so to be friend with these women make yourself stand out wear designer clothes
wear designer perfume branded basically and wear western outfits they love it if you
go in party simple in ordinary clothes sorry to say but you won't make them frnd
another thing is speak in their language preferably english they are more western then u.
goodluck!!

 

Have you ever noticed that when you walk down the road every stranger says a Hi or smiles at you except Indians? I have noticed that most Indians immediately turn their heads in a different direction or frown when they spot another Indian. What you are facing is just an extension of that. :hide:
We Indians are highly judgmental lot. But we do have a lot of good people among us who really want to know the real you and want to form and maintain a lasting friendship. I hope you find such good people too. :thumbsup

 

hei aparna,

I feel Exactly the same.....but I figured it out one thing, women who comes directly as dependents mostly behaves like that, because by the time they are here, their husbands settle everything for them, so they don't know real life, but who comes to study or work, they will go through lot of hurdles in their beginning, so they know the value of life.:idea

Girls the above thoughts are just my opinion

Please Note: these are not applicable for all dependents :thumbsup

 

Whoa ...Do i smell inferiority complex and attitude here?

And what's up if they come from rural places, they work HARD to get the so called annum salary.

No disrespect to home makers, they are a lot of indian stay at home moms who are real gems. But that doesn't make all home makers good and working people bad.

Good and bad people are in working and non working clans. Please don't generalize them.

My opinion : Don't make friends with people who like you because of your designer clothes / perfume. Try to be friends with people who genuinely like you for who you are and be there for you in both good and bad times .It doesn't matter whether they are indian / american .

 

Very true....The one comment I just despise is when they say " I hate Indians" although they themselves are one!!!! Hello... how can you hate Indians when you have Indian blood in you ????
One time I caught a conversation amongst the younger generation (20 somethings) discussing how Indians are this and that and I just could not hold back. Oh they got an earful ! For me its one thing to not like one person because of their personality or whatever but don't generalize and make rude comments about all Indians. Urggggg Witsend

Thanks
Oopall.

 

People generalize all the time. It's only a recent phenomenon, that we are seeing individuals for what they are, than for what they represent.

That said, I have to say that we Indians do not just go out and greet strangers. That's not something most of us grew up with, so it takes time to cultivate that. Sometimes it could also be a case of 'once bitten, twice shy', when someone smiled at you in order to get you to listen to their sales pitch (Amway?)!

But I must say that there is a lot of regionalism amongst us. It's sometimes hard to get friends if you don't speak their language, or aren't from their state! Of course, that is improving as people become more broad-minded..

 

You can begin by dropping that attitude and by opening your eyes.

And not just you - there seems to be generalizations and attitudes galore on the thread.