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ayeshanaaz · Sep 7, 2007

Hi Cheeniya,

What do I say, I really liked the way you put across your thoughts in words,,,,,, and sholud I say I envy:-( as I cannot do the same:bangcomp: .

I really loved the way you expalained the anxiety a man goes through while he is waiting for the train..........

TOOOOOOOO good

Keep it up

Love
Ayesha

cheeniya said: ↑

Dear Sravanthi
Men congratulate each other whenever the wife goes on vacation. I remember how the Tamil comedian Janakaraj bids adieu to his wife and after making sure his wife boarded the bus lets out a yell 'En pondatti oorukku poitta!' (My wife has gone out of town)! But his joy lasts only for a moment as his wife lands back within a few minutes!

I dont know what happens to a woman when her hubby goes on a long trip or for that matter even a short trip. But I can tell you that it is for NO sinister reason that a man feels happy if he gets a small interlude from his family life. If you imagine that remarks like, 'You may not get this again, enjoy' etc are loaded ones, let me assure you that they are purely good-natured ones and not tantamount to suggesting anything illegal or immoral!

I have been away from my family for pretty long streches in my early days either due to my having to go on tour or my wife going to spend a month or so with her parents. The joy of that separation used to be mutual though for different reasons. I did use to feel liberated initially as basically it meant that I did not have to apportion my time between family and professional chores as well as my own personal pursuits like reading and listening to music. In the bargain, I always got less than my due share to pursue my own interests.

The first two or three days would be spent in clubs with friends without having to follow a rigid time schedule. The freedom to draw our own schedules for the day always gave a huge sense of freedom.

The joy of course would last only for the first few days. Then slowly it would start getting on our nerves as we made our own morning cuppa or left with no other choice for breakfast other than some toasted bread and cereals. It starts as physical discomfort initially which grows more and more emotional as the days drag on. Damn it, I miss her, we admit to ourselves reluctantly.

Then we send her a mail enquiring if she could come back earlier! And of course you dont have to rush back, we assure her but she gets the meaning alright and grins to herself.

Finally, the night before her arrival, we are as excited as a newly married man. We are present at the station an hour before the arrival of the train but the damn train is a couple of hours late! How we spend the time in the station for those three hours would be like doing virtual penance! And finally when the train arrives and she emerges out of the train as radiantly as ever (in spite of the long train journey), a grin connects our two ears!
oh, Sravanthi. These are indeed joys of life. Dont miss out on them by asking yourself unnecessary questions!
Sri
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sunkan · Sep 7, 2007

Finally, the night before her arrival, we are as excited as a newly married man. We are present at the station an hour before the arrival of the train but the damn train is a couple of hours late! How we spend the time in the station for those three hours would be like doing virtual penance! And finally when the train arrives and she emerges out of the train as radiantly as ever (in spite of the long train journey), a grin connects our two ears!
oh, Sravanthi. These are indeed joys of life. Dont miss out on them by asking yourself unnecessary questions!
Sri[/quote]

dear sri,
couldn't help coming back for your comments here, so nice to hear ur words on this, mm the great lady is really lucky...sunkan

Cheeniya · Sep 7, 2007

Dear Ayesha
Does not absense make the heart grow fonder? Of all the pains of love, the most enjoyable is the one caused by the absence of the loved one!
Thank you for your warm comments!
Sri

Cheeniya · Sep 7, 2007

Dear Sundari
Thank you for your comment!
Talking of the 'great lady', I remember a joke. Once a chap asked a friend of his who was the lady he was walking with at the beach on the previous day and the man replied "It was no lady. It was my wife!"
Sri

SunitaGN · Sep 14, 2007

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Dear Sundari
Thank you for your comment!
Talking of the 'great lady', I remember a joke. Once a chap asked a friend of his who was the lady he was walking with at the beach on the previous day and the man replied "It was no lady. It was my wife!"
Sri
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:2thumbsup: jeeez... that was so funny!

Thanks for making me laugh.

Sunita

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