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The +ve change you brought about in your spouse? how?

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by mstrue, Jun 12, 2010.

  1. mstrue

    mstrue New IL'ite

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    Thanks, ILite & RV8 & all others!! You guys take equal credit because your posts are the ones that make it all sweet & interesting.
    Did you ask, SP?!:crazy
    Don't worry.. Me too in same boat. (ID.. hold on. I don't know the answer to your Q either. :biglaugh)
    @sirilu27
    That was a good change!:thumbsup
    RV, ur DH is in IL? :)
    WOW! Commendable, Raha. And great way to bring about the change. Thanks for sharing.

    Thanks, Pragati. (nice name yaar. :thumbsup and nice change in your DH too. )

    WOW WOW WOW!! ASG, That is a profound change! You & Your DH :thumbsup. Yes, that is the best gift of all he could give you.

    Oh, My pleasure, ASG!
    "Count your blessings" is the ticket to happyland. :coffee
    @Mithy
    cute writeup da.
    My Shilpa.. so much change! good work, ma.
    oh sweet, Shilpa.
    :rotfl
    Oh.. So sweet of you. I am very glad to see your happy post in this thread as well. :thumbsup

    :thankyou2:, Neha!
    Socialization & Anger Management - Great job there, Neha!!
     
  2. Spiderman1

    Spiderman1 Gold IL'ite

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    prolly referring to IL = her in-laws?
     
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  3. mstrue

    mstrue New IL'ite

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    :bonkThat makes sense! Thanks, SP.:)
     
  4. SriAnnapurna

    SriAnnapurna New IL'ite

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    1) Like ASG, I got my DH to quit smoking (he had been smoking for 9+ yrs). He finally told me last weekend, he completely quit smoking! It feels amazing! :thumbsup

    2) Tidiness - His house was a messy place, and whenever I'm coming back home - he makes sure everything's put back where they originally belong.

    3) Patience - He used to get extremely annoyed with traffic. Now, he's calmed down and doesn't really bother even if we're driving at 10mph.

    And, DH too has brought out lot of +ves in me too.. :)

    - Annie
     
  5. Spiderman1

    Spiderman1 Gold IL'ite

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    Excellent on the smoking thing.

    But more than that I dont understand #2 above. How? How? How did ANY guy convert to being tidy? Thats out of the world, a husband was converted to being tidy? :hide:

    I can understand smoking, but tidy? Poor thing. Did you do this to him? :biglaugh
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    SriAnnapurna New IL'ite

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    :rotfl Naah! But, I wish I could :-D (Just kidding!)

    May be I should have mentioned he gets tidy just on the weekends. :hide: We stay at different cities, and before I reach home on Friday he cleans up the space. That's because, he saw me getting tired week after week, traveling - cooking - cleaning. So he spends just an hour or so dumping everything into the basement before I get there so that the rooms look "Tidy" and the mess creeps back in during the weekend! :(

    Hmm, I just gotta live with it! :roll: I'm glad he puts on the Tidiness cap atleast once a week, which is a good start!
     
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    Spiderman1 Gold IL'ite

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    I cant tell you how relieved I am to read that! Phew!
    I thought the world was coming to an end.

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    to dress and look to be appreciated by one's spouse and to grow in more confidence in oneself however unpleasant the world can be .
     

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