Hi Friends, I'm a regular reader here - addicted to IL i can say . Back drop - Myself and DH working IT majors. We are only 2 daughter for parents My younger sister got married in jan to doctorate holder in europe. She is dependent. currently she too moved there. After moving abroad, she started to behave as if she is the best and we are looked upon down. I can see from the calls and eg: yesterday we had talk in skype, she is too bored to talk to me, indirectly said..oh it must be late for you guys sleep.. bye before i could say bye she cut the call. And she dint have a word to my DH. Nor she talked to him after she went there. When she was in a bad condition earlier in 2013-2014 she dint have job for 2 years and she had a breakup. We (me and DH) supported her emotionally and sometimes financially too. My DH would help her like picking up from her work place sometimes. Taking her for interviews etc. She wasted one year doing IAS prepartory, she just went to the class, most of the time slept and wasted time on social networking, going out with friends etc. Parents were totally upset with her. Later she found a job in pvt. bank though she did engg in electrical, with pay of say 20k. She never spent her money on her wedding expected dad to do everything which my dad did (long story-trying to forget) she even expected dad to pay her travel ticket! Lastly for her travel shopping too i helped her finacially and physically. She was rejected by many because of horoscope. Later somehow this alliance was setup though my dad was against this alliance for her because of complex issues (dad came to know the guys elder bro had married to another relgion gal, later divorced and now married and has kid, they hid his divorce part). I made dad to agree for this alliance, saying why we worry about his bro's past. We will see this guy etc. Now forgeting all the past, she behaves as if being in europe is something great, being in india is worst. One of my frnd's frnd lives close by i asked her 'did u visit her', she replied boastingly saying "What you think, its not india to just to knock the door, we have get appointment to meet". and every other time she points out this 'oh its not india'. And when i ask what u ate/cook, she says "what u think only eating/cooking is done here, you dont have anything to else to talk". "Whenever i see her online, i ping her, she never pinged me first. She compares me with her current position saying "see my times were bad now see where i'm now. Now all my friends praise me". After seeing me online too she ignores. Always in a hurry to end call. So, i stopped calling her. I'm feeling very depressed because of her behaviour. Parent dont notice this at all. They think its very normal to cut the call, or not asking about my DH. My DH says, see how people change, he feels bad. I'm farmore in a better position in a forturne 100 with decent pay + i married the person whom i love. Have adroable 1 yr old. Though in school, college i was better compare to her. I got selected in campus, she was jobless for 3+ yrs. Still my sister makes me feel that i'm low to her. Pls tell how to handle this.