anika, So many of your threads are based on comparisons to other people and then after IL-ites “remind you”, you say yes you have a blessed life.... until the next envy/comparison thread. Now that you have said yes its a blessed life, hope no more “my friends life in india/zambia/amreeeka vs my life” threads? And yes many specialist physicians, attorneys and IT people in faang do make extraordinary remuneration.
@anika987 If you can find good balance of family time and earning nothing wrong. These constant reminders wear out after sometime. I understand your husband has demanding job but I know so many women who make it work even with spouse on traveling job.
Well but am glad I have IL’s time and again to remind me! I know I could get annoying but am glad they didn’t disregard me or ban me for my questions Oops! Am giving ideas here... Moving on..
I am searching a job which works for our family.. Bluntly saying..they are offering me max $8 to $10 per hour for 9 to 5... I also have to shell out aftercare and beforecare.. Commute is half hour max..I can be back home after picking child from School after care only by 6 to 6.15. Hubby cannot provide any help with his crazy timings and commute.. Couple of her activities do not fall in the weekend and so it has to be weekdays evening.I don’t want to make her quit For me.. How do I work it in my case? Hubby keeps saying it is not worth it and if I want look for a job part time..am Trying hard and not getting it.. I am going to start searching after the holidays..
You can find nice jobs 1)work from home based, 2)online tutoring 3) your a Bharathnatyam dancer - gal you can make money and name in it. Bay area you can charge upto 20$ per hr. I tell you open a dance school. 4) after school tutor - there are many after school places , they pay quite good you can also take your kid there. It's from 3-6 pm. An aquitance is doing that she is happy.
Ofcourse no one will ban you for the questions! But won’t it be good for you, if you embrace the reminder that you have a blessed life and not forget it quickly? Or do you disagree with what I wrote in my post?
MB hasn't wilted away. She is glamorous as ever and as tall as ever I should not have mentioned her at all. Their marriage was already on downward spiral. Somehow these very rich men have a need to have multiple marriages- that's what I was getting to. While a average earner may not feel the need to. Both may have mistresses on the side. But even with mistresses, most rich guy marry at least twice. Op is not talking about JB kind of money but more like 800k per year. Two totally different things. So, Gates and Bezos are not good examples here.
I have learnt classical but haven’t completed it.How can I become one?Last time I danced was years back.. I have applied for paraprofessional..hopefully I get it Also..for online tutoring I have to be good at something..I was never good at studies and what can I tutor on? However..I have done some Date entry/clerical jobs and figuring it out
I think I get what you are saying. When the household income is 800K'ish, the problems are not those of households with 200-400K'ish. Chances are the husband or higher earner is totally into career, so the other person should have some purpose in life other than being the support for the high earner.