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Would You Stay Or Leave?

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by DavenaRosalie, Jun 19, 2018.

  1. DavenaRosalie

    DavenaRosalie Bronze IL'ite

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    If your husband cheated on you, would you stay and give him another chance or leave him and file for divorce?
     
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  2. ashneys

    ashneys Platinum IL'ite

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    Not sure how that can be answered just like that. Leaving n staying depends on a lot of things between the couple, their relationship, their situation, the affair n their individual personality.

    Some cares way too much about it n some doesn't at all, as some might see it only as a body thing. Some might see it as the ultimate betrayal. Though cheating is absolutely a wrong thing, how people react to it varies depending on a lot of things.

    It can depend on whether it was a one night stand or a love affair.

    Whether he / she will do it again if their partner doesn't react too hard, or just will do anyway.

    - Some forgives n stays,
    This can result in the following :
    The partner might never do it again.
    The partner might do it again n may get better at hiding.
    Or their partner might ignore the cheating as they don't want to face the drama or can't / won't do anything about it.
    - some can't forgive or move on or see their partner the same way n divorces,
    - some stays in the marriage without truly forgiving or moving in and ensures the partner's life becomes miserable - like a revenge or just stuck due to family or afraid to decide, but in turn their life also becomes miserable.

    Personally, I have seen all those situations as I have mentioned above. If you can't "truly forgive" n move on, don't bother with any other options. First try separation, use that time n decide what to do. But even then reconcile only if you can let go completely n move on (yes, people are capable of doing this too). Or else it makes everyone's life miserable, including the kids. So take time n decide carefully.
     
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    Mishkaa Senior IL'ite

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