Would You Stay Or Leave?

Not sure how that can be answered just like that. Leaving n staying depends on a lot of things between the couple, their relationship, their situation, the affair n their individual personality.

Some cares way too much about it n some doesn't at all, as some might see it only as a body thing. Some might see it as the ultimate betrayal. Though cheating is absolutely a wrong thing, how people react to it varies depending on a lot of things.

It can depend on whether it was a one night stand or a love affair.

Whether he / she will do it again if their partner doesn't react too hard, or just will do anyway.

- Some forgives n stays,
This can result in the following :
The partner might never do it again.
The partner might do it again n may get better at hiding.
Or their partner might ignore the cheating as they don't want to face the drama or can't / won't do anything about it.
- some can't forgive or move on or see their partner the same way n divorces,
- some stays in the marriage without truly forgiving or moving in and ensures the partner's life becomes miserable - like a revenge or just stuck due to family or afraid to decide, but in turn their life also becomes miserable.

Personally, I have seen all those situations as I have mentioned above. If you can't "truly forgive" n move on, don't bother with any other options. First try separation, use that time n decide what to do. But even then reconcile only if you can let go completely n move on (yes, people are capable of doing this too). Or else it makes everyone's life miserable, including the kids. So take time n decide carefully.

 

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