1. How to Build Positivity in Married Life? : Click Here
    Dismiss Notice

Would you marry your husband again?

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Rihana, Feb 23, 2009.

  1. divyagshenoy

    divyagshenoy Senior IL'ite

    Messages:
    65
    Likes Received:
    25
    Trophy Points:
    23
    Gender:
    Female
    already married him thrice 8 yrs ago :exactly:- temple marriage , court marriage , marriage with all the rituals...given a chance..will do it again....
     
  2. thegirlygirl

    thegirlygirl Platinum IL'ite

    Messages:
    1,623
    Likes Received:
    1,702
    Trophy Points:
    283
    Gender:
    Female
    Awwwww......That is soooooooooo sweet!

    Wish I find someone with whom I can share all this........
     
  3. polymorphic

    polymorphic Platinum IL'ite

    Messages:
    1,017
    Likes Received:
    925
    Trophy Points:
    208
    Gender:
    Female
    Yes.. if he had a different family :)
     
    1 person likes this.
  4. MaliniHari

    MaliniHari Gold IL'ite

    Messages:
    584
    Likes Received:
    541
    Trophy Points:
    188
    Gender:
    Female
    Yes, I do. The best in the world! :) No second thoughts! I have learnt to love him with his imperfections! And he does the same! :)
     
  5. malinisarovar

    malinisarovar Silver IL'ite

    Messages:
    168
    Likes Received:
    117
    Trophy Points:
    93
    Gender:
    Female
    Oh definitely! Any number of times. Usually I keep asking him, why didn't you marry me earlier.....he is the gift of God...
     
    1 person likes this.
  6. HasteRaho

    HasteRaho Platinum IL'ite

    Messages:
    621
    Likes Received:
    1,160
    Trophy Points:
    263
    Gender:
    Female
    Absolutely.

    We both wish we had met each other earlier because we're really well synced in so many ways. Truly, I actually never saw marriage for myself, nor was looking to be with anyone as I was so focused on my career. But that all changed once we met each other and we realized our feelings. It just goes to show that when you least expect it, you may run into the right person who will make that future possible :)

    The toughest part in our marriage was really just earlier on, we had to live separately because of our jobs but we both understood the struggle and sacrifices the other had made to achieve a happy, successful career. So we did what we could to support each other and made it a point to spend each weekend/holiday/any free time available together no matter what and it made the time we spent together that much more precious so we didn't waste it on fighting or such (not that anything really came up to seriously fight about).

    The funny part was others relatives' comments about our choice in this matter and you know how people love to talk or make stuff up. They seemed to be more at pain about the matter than we were. I believe we handled it really well with the support of each other and our parents, even.

    Since then, we've finally moved to one place and things are still peachy!!! LOVING IT! Our families get along, we get along, everything is going smoothly. Super thankful and blessed!
     
    Last edited: Jan 18, 2014
  7. jigisha321

    jigisha321 Gold IL'ite

    Messages:
    265
    Likes Received:
    382
    Trophy Points:
    123
    Gender:
    Female
    No..He failed me when I needed him the most...to help me look after my parents..that broke my idealism and lowered me in my own eyes...
    He is a gem of a person in other ways...honest,sincere,down-to-earth..but something in my heart has snapped for ever and cannot get fixed in this lifetime..my pains do not reach him..

    3 yrs of marriage and a kid.
     
    Last edited: Jan 18, 2014
  8. zales

    zales Silver IL'ite

    Messages:
    90
    Likes Received:
    115
    Trophy Points:
    83
    Gender:
    Female
    I have had my share of hard times. Marriage is definitely the hardest thing i've had to do, but i think the storm has passed. I will definitely marry him again if i had to.
     
  9. aashuabhi

    aashuabhi Gold IL'ite

    Messages:
    649
    Likes Received:
    852
    Trophy Points:
    188
    Gender:
    Female
    Definitely. Anyday, anytime, anywhere and any number of times. :kiss
     
  10. jaanu143

    jaanu143 Gold IL'ite

    Messages:
    707
    Likes Received:
    570
    Trophy Points:
    188
    Gender:
    Female
    I second Polymorphic, i will marry him again and again, but love it more when he have different and loving family.....
     

Share This Page