Women harassment- real life experiences

You bought a really thought Provoking topic..

I am from Andhra Pradesh and I can list many number of incidents which happened in my state..

When I am studying my Intermediate in Guntur, a guy named Manohar came to kill the gal Srilakshmi,Master student, for not accepting his love..He came to the University and cut her throat with big knife..

Another one was which happened an year ago..Ayesha Meera, bpharm student, case which was a mystery for many months..and few days back the culprit had caught..He came to ayeshas hostel in the night when everyone was sleeping..dragged her to balcony,broke her head,thn Raped her as a animal and wrote´CHIRUTHA´on her heart and left..Here the guy and gal doesnt know eachother..Its only saddist and Psycho of that guy to kill gals..

Other which happened 2 months back in my town..where the guy srinivas Throwed a bottle of acid on the face of Swapnika who is final yr btech student..In which her whole face and most of the body is burned ..her frnd who is sitting back of her on the bike also got hurt..Swapnika died after 1 month with lot of struggle and Pain..
Here good thing is, After the incident has happened..The Police encountred srinivas and his frnds for supporting himmm...Hatsoff to Police..

I can go on list so many incidents..People Pray for victims and curse the culprits but no one either the people nor govt..takes the necessary action to remove these weeds..

Hugs,
dg...

 

After commenting to your post, I started to read our newspaper and a recent thing is 1 inter student Poured Hot oil on the body of his lover in the night when she is in sleep,because of not loving him..

Can you imagine how far is this cruelty going to be??

Hugs,
dg..

 

Hi,

A very relevant post. It is sad that women have to undergo all this for just being women. Some men think it is their birth right to harass women. Unless strict rules are implemented and the men severly punished it is not going to improve. In fact, I think it is going from bad to worse - especially in cities like Delhi.

 

Hi:
I am Nikky90.The topic I just read very sensitive, not every body talks about it very freely. the religion I belong to is a complete religion, and solves almost all the problems linked with women. women is allowed to appear in front of men only if he is her relative , like her grandfather, father, brother or husband, brothers of her mother and father that's it(these relatives are called mehram). and if she needs to go out for picnic or because of any kind of compulsion she will go with her mehram. men and women are not allowed to get together until they have legal relation like marriage.
Women should not go out of home alone, her mehrams should be able to take care of there women. and if the condition is that she has to go out alone. she should cover her whole body except her face, wrist, and ankles to toes. if she displays her body parts men would defiantly attract toward her. if she wears sandals or jewelries which make noise and gain attention of men, are not allowed. perfumes to attract men are not allowed.
doing fashion is not prohibited but only in front of women and mehrams. in our religion women is very precious. she is not to show every body. as the boy or girl gets adult, marriage is compulsory on them, so that they don't get involve in bad deeds, like rape or women harassment. there are still many instruction which are helpful to make our communities free from "women harassment".
if any body still wants to ask any type of questions she may ask without hesitation.
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Nikky90

 

With due respect, I don't think this is the solution to the problem. Sitting at home, covered from head to toe is not helping women. That is just running away from it. Not that women at home are safe either - what about domestic abuse? And it is ridiculous to think that wearing jewellery and sandal attracts eve teasing. This is just the kind of attitude that sets women's rights and liberty back by a couple of centuries.....

 

Dear Krisvidya,
I notice eve teasing and sexual harrasment are very rampant in India (note iam not denying it does not exist in other countries) , i agree women shd be taught to stand up against and the society shd look up to the women who bring justice to these offenders.

I still can't understand why men behave this way towards women.

 

Vidhya,
sure i agree untold, unnoticed cases also keep happening everywhere and our daughters and other female friends should be educated on this.If we make them our friends, sharing thoughts and information becomes easier and they can be taught or complain about such incidents. Many dont even tell their parents i think. thought provoking post.

 

Its true women is still not treated with love n respect by few evil maniac in our society. I do remember the case of HP lady who was abused n killed by the cab driver. I was also in bangalore back then n was horrified to hear such incident coz even i worked with a software company where late hours were common...but thank to our company who strictly started the rule of all girls back home before 7, they started monitoring all cabbies closely n provided security gaurd in each cab that runs post 7 pm. Though all these measures were taken once we heard of such case around us and now m not sure if they still follow it or not! Sad, but we r awaken only after somethings goes wrong...Its bad that gov/companies don't take up these issues seriously.
Moreover look at the end result, the case of that HP incident is yet not resolved , the case is still going on n culprit is still having fun with court sessions/bailouts.