The idea behind this thread stemmed from this new york times article published today. The article is titled "You may want to marry my husband" by Amy Rosenthal, a 51 year old Chicago writer who is apparently dying of ovarian cancer. Out of love for her husband, to whom she has been married for 26 years, and as a last valentine present, she thought she would make known his stellar qualities in the hope that he will not end up lonely after her death. They have a 19 y/o daughter. All noble ideas. But is this even practical for the rest of us if we were in her shoes ? Is this selfless ? Is this what true love is supposed to look like ? What are your thoughts ? Will you be able to do what the author did ?