Will This Marriage Work Anymore?

True, She could have divorced on this ground first instead of cheating on him.

 

Important skill for discussion is ones capability to take a different perspective.

Perspective-taking is about being able to understand a situation from the point of view of another person which helps to explore further.

The biggest trap of perspective-seeking is reaching out to people who have the same point of view as you as a way to validate a hard decision you want to make.

A perspective is not right or wrong by default. It just is what it is: the point of view of a single person based on their life experiences and values, among other things. We each have one; sometimes we share it with others, and sometimes we do not.

 

Thank You justanothergirl
If impotency, a medical condition on which the person has no control is a crime, then adultery, by choice is a bigger crime at least in the eyes of god.
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Some people like and some dislike. Important skill for discussion is ones capability to take a different perspective.

Perspective-taking is about being able to understand a situation from the point of view of another person which helps to explore further.

The biggest trap of perspective-seeking is reaching out to people who have the same point of view as you as a way to validate a hard decision you want to make.

A perspective is not right or wrong by default. It just is what it is: the point of view of a single person based on their life experiences and values, among other things. We each have one; sometimes we share it with others, and sometimes we do not.

 

Right on!

 

True. When a op posts and have already accepted their mistakes, isnt it rude to use words like shame on you and further victimize them.

 

Impotency is not a crime, hiding it was.
But only god and the husband knows if he knew prior to marriage

 

This is not directed at you @Topaz49 .
Something I noticed generally

 

"shame on you", would never be from me.
Adultery is a big deal. "Sorry, it was a mistake", does not cut it. Every action has consequence. Face it and go forward.
Bringing impotency as an issue after the adultery is beating the dead horse.
Double Whammy! self esteem is already down due to impotency, on top adultery has created an open wound - a reminder of his impotency.

 

Sorry, without being medically tested, how would one know? Out of the blue you don't go and test for cancer. Everyone's sexuality is different and that is not indicative of some one's impotency.
Perhaps, it should be mandatory, that every man and and woman should test for their reproductive functionality prior to marriage. It won't be a bad idea to test for sexually transmitted diseases at the same time.