@sindmani there is a update in a few posts above which bumped the thread up. She is suffering from schizopernia.
Hi sister, very sorry for ur loss. It is an unimaginable loss. I know wen things like dis happens, we always think, y us? Wat did we do? My aunt used to say, god has a plan for us or it's bcoz god believes we r strong enuf to take it n better things wil come out way. Trust me, at dat time, dese dialogues mayb annoying to hear but as time goes, it may make sense. U hav d rite to feel fed up, frustrated, stressed, angry n grieve abt it. Plz do so with a grief counsellor as they will help u in handling it d rite way. Ur hubby n u need to b der for each other n b supportive. Don't hide things from him. Say u both need to get help n go for it. Once u feel ready, try for another child. Prayers r with u.
Thanks shanvy ma'am. Schizophrenia can also be cured ma'am.hope she gets help to regain normalcy through good counsellor
Lets wish her good luck, great health by the grace of almighty, and great support to her family . so be it.
Your wife seems to have some mental issue. Wow .usually I have only read posts about husband as the abuser. Either she gets treatment and change or you divorce her
Hi OP, I really admire your patience about her. On the other hand, she has clinically been tested for schizophrenia. Its sad how the people with mental illness are labelled. On one hand depression patients go through hell and on the other hand few people just use the condition to gain a little more attention or a little more public drama than they already got. Its like asking a blind person to be normal and see everything. He CAN NOT see, its a condition, not that he fancies to be blind. Your wife has been doing things because she feels she is doing the right thing . Her brain is tricking her to behave this way. I am so glad she is on treatment and you had patience towards her . Well done . All the very best to you and her, she will be the woman you fell in love once again. A bit of help will be needed to manage kids but you will all be fine. God Bless.
Why not? Now that he knows there is a psychiatric issue some normalcy could be achieved through treatment. If you were to fall sick would you want your spouse to leave you?