Wife's reaction to roadside pervert !!!

That your wife did not question you or show any reaction certainly disobeys the laws of human behavior/interaction. Why did you let her go away just like that? Would I be suspicious in your position? Yes. My suspicion would be that she probably knows the biker and is hiding something from you. Is this what you're suspecting as well? By the way, the information you've provided is inadequate to come to any conclusion.

If this is true then it you're probably reading too much into the incident. But still the data you've provided is insufficient.

 

Perverts do exist. They do that sort of perversion, by standing on road side by ogling at family women. They do get beaten up also. These incidents happen again and again.

I understand.

But, no pervert would ever ogle at a woman and do this , when she is sitting just next to her husband. Seeing her sitting with her husband, even the worst pervert would move away. Perverts look for women alone. Why would that pervert do it, in your very conspicuous presence ? No pervert would intentionally choose to get into trouble !

This defies the logic of my common sense.

I will certainly come back and explain in detail whether such an 'other possibility of she enjoying that attention secretly', could have exited. My answer will definitely answer your suspicion. But before that you have to answer, whether the possibility , which I have highlighted above ,in bold red letters, could exist !

 

Instead of pulling your wife away...you should have screamed at the guy and thrown a pot on his head. Your wife would have enjoyed that.

Don't stress out unnecessarily.Like you said she was looking at the park.May be she didn't pay as close attention to his activity as you did.

At worst ...your wife doesn't mind the attention .At best...she is attractive and has to bear with this kind of attention all the time and is immune to it.

You find your wife's reaction strange...I find your inaction on seeing all this strange. It's just a way of looking at things differently.

 

you said you could see him if you put some extra effort.....so might be that you were not visible to him..

if this is bothering you so much why dont you ask your wife directly and clarify it?

 

there is no issues... just let the pevert go.. dont let it be the reason of an issue btw u and wife

 

Dear OP,
Your reaction to this whole episode is stranger than that of your wife.

1. If you saw a street pervert in an obscene act right in front of you, why didn't you just get up on your feet, raise an alarm and scream at him. You being a father of two kids, how could you let off that rogue so easily?

2. Why didn't you take it up with your area watchman or your neighbours to formulate measures and ensure it does not happen near your compound again? Doesn't it concern you as a FATHER what could be WORSE is your 9 year old son watching him in the act rather than your wife?!

3. If your mother has witnessed it too and if it is indeed a regular occurrence around your compound and neighbourhood, then there's a serious security issue and urgent need for residents to take it up with the concerned area authorities to ensure safety of residents, especially women and children.

I wouldn't call it a safe neighbourhood, no matter how nice the park looks!

 

Agree with lotusAura.
If your mother has seen this and not done anything...what really do you expect your wife to do?

Maybe she was waiting for you to react to the incident.Maybe she was disappointed by your lack of protective instinct and went inside.

 

Very nice comments by yellow mango and lotus aura. Could not agree more. I hate when men would not take a second to blame women. Can't believe, You even checked your wife's mobile phone and emails for it. Long time back me and my husband went to City on Friday night it's usually very busy. We were having dinner in a very busy club. There was a group of men sitting on the next table and one of them just kept starring at me. I didn't even pay attention, I was busy looking outside the window. My husband noticed that guy and shouted stop looking at my wife, will ya. I still remember these words though it's been 8 years. That guy felt very insulted he got up and apologised and all of them left. Just imagine like Trueloveseek if myhusband would have doubted me and checked my emails and mobile I would have nearly killed him. Dear it's bad bad world out there grow a spine and stop doubting your wife.