Why Husband's Never Accepts Our Suggestions Or Idea's Immediately..

May be ego is coming his way to accept. After few days he will think over it and get convinced that it is his idea. When it is his idea, no question of ego, so finally he implements it.

 

When the idea / suggestion is not asked by him, you go and give one, voluntarily, (though you do it out of all the good will of helping him only), he may see it as, totally 'unwarranted'. In men's world, we don't offer suggestion to our even the closest male friend, unless he asks for one.

You are trying to 'connect to him at an emotional plane' by offering the suggestion, which appears good to you, for the given problem. But to him, it will be like saying, "Look ! You are such an incompetent small child, not knowing how to decide on your own. That is why I stepped in with my suggestion".

No man connects to his same sex friend emotionally, by offering suggestions/ ideas. Probably, your husbands feels the same way ! Ideas offered to him are not generally appreciated , unless called for.

May be, after decades of learning, a man may understand that a wife's attempt to correct him by offering suggestions, is out of love and care. Then, he may appreciate. To the man to whom such a learning does not happen, unwarranted ideas/ suggestions are surely irritants !


Simple !

 

Oh no... The man surely bows before all of his mother's crying and complaints , brainwashing and blackmailing, who again do not belong to same gender...