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Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by Tugga, Feb 15, 2012.

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  1. vijikrish

    vijikrish Gold IL'ite

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    Wow~ I saw other thread and shocked by some of statements.
    Her id needs to be reported and IP needs to be tracked for racial statements.
     
  2. SSC

    SSC Platinum IL'ite

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    All,

    I have reported this thread. Here are some of her other threads posted in the past one month:

    http://www.indusladies.com/forums/married-life/158842-now-it-her-turn-seems.html

    http://www.indusladies.com/forums/married-life/158129-possible-grown-up-man-not.html

    http://www.indusladies.com/forums/married-life/157812-basic-character-indian-husband-what.html

    http://www.indusladies.com/forums/snippets-of-life-non-fiction/157629-sacrifices-are-for-what.html

    http://www.indusladies.com/forums/married-life/156405-problem-again-disturbed-need-quick.html

    http://www.indusladies.com/forums/married-life/156071-a-new-problem-need-suggestions.html

    And another one, when people did not give her the suggestion she wanted:

    http://www.indusladies.com/forums/married-life/157390-are-we-on-right-path.html


    These are ONLY the threads she started in the last one month, barring posts in other threads that are sometimes derogatory. I have reported this thread, and please refrain from posting here. When some of us mention about a poster's history and are warning other members here to stay away, please take it as some serious warning. Posters dont come to relationship forums, to have fun reading about other people's problems. Genuine posters often sympathise/rebuke the OP, and offer genuine suggestions.


    Edit : If anyone gets derogatory PMs, please forward it to the moderators, and they know how to handle it the best. And until the mod comes back, lets all refrain from one on ones, please!
     
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  3. CJaya

    CJaya Junior IL'ite

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    My dear Tugga,

    My heart goes out to you !

    We all know that you are so hurt and you had done lots of sacrifice in your life. But tell us one thing: What is the use in grinding the same dough repeatedly? What are you trying to say?

    You posted your problem here and we took our time to respond to you. You had deafened your ears and went on your own way. And again coming back with multiple threads and crying with the old stories.

    If you think that this forum is biased with group of people, the doors are open to you. It is not closed for anyone.

    What do you want us to do for you?

    Note: Don't try to send derogatory PM's to me. Never think about it !
     
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  4. Induslady

    Induslady Administrator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Dear Tugga,

    Please refrain from making racial statements, sending derogatory PMs, bashing fellow members of the community if you don't get the type of response you expected in your threads.

    Also, your posts in the open forum complaining this forum is very biased towards a particular religion, custom and group of people is totally NOT acceptable.

    One more time we notice these kind of things happening again, we will have to block your participation from here.

    As you might have noticed, "IndusLadies" is a majority Indian Ladies site. While we accept and encourage people of other race and nationality to join and participate here, we absolutely cannot accept offensive statements about "Indians" or "India" in general.

    Kindly go thro' our Forum Etiquette and Guidelines and try to participate abiding to it. Do not start threads of similar nature in different forums. If you think this site / forums / members are of not your "like", you are welcome to move-on. Good luck in finding something that suits you better.

    Dear IL'ites,

    When you find some member passing derogatory remarks in their posts or via PMs, kindly forward it the respective forum moderator or to IL_Admin. Report the posts if made in the forum.

    Do NOT encourage or make the member furious to make more such things by responding to those posts or PMs. Stay away if you think the member is into bashing others.

    Note: Some of the members posts here are edited to abide by the forums guidelines and policies. No one is authorized to bash or condemn or get into one-on-one rifts in IndusLadies!
     
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