Who would you send? - Contest for the month of September

Discussion in 'Topic of the Month - Contest' started by Induslady, Sep 1, 2007.

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  1. Shanvy

    Shanvy IL Hall of Fame

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    hi ac,

    Nice of you to show post your photo here.....

    now i will visualise this with all your fireworks.....:thumbsup
     
  2. Chitvish

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    Dear Ac,
    I am very happy for you.
    You minced no words - that is what I like best about your entry. We must have conviction in our own words. How others take it or view it, is not our concern.
    Please post your photo immediately in the Faces thread, please.
    Love,
    Chithra.
     
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    Dear Anandchitra,
    I loved your entry. I too would have sentmy son, In fact I did send him.
    Regards,
    meenu
     
  4. Anandchitra

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    Thanks that another person is like me. It must have been a difficult decision to make. My son was very mad with me for my choice. my husband did not agree but kept quiet. I based on all my diificulties in life. It really is difficult to say if its right or wrong.
     
  5. Aarushi

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    Hi Anandchitra,

    Congrats for winning the top prize!! :clap
    As others said, it was a short, straight forward, crisp answer. :)

    Yes, there will be many who will not agree with your decision...me included...just because I think showing favoritism to a child based on the gender is wrong. I did not send an entry to this contest, but what I feel is that the decision should be based more on what the subject is that the child wants to study. If it is something that will be better for a child's career, then I would send that particular child abroad. Or even better would be to ask both of them to complete their graduation in India first and then apply abroad, ask for financial aid from their respective colleges and then supplement both with your own money. That way you help both the kids and don't show preference for one over the other.

    Just my 2 cents.
     
  6. Anandchitra

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    Thanks for the wishes. That is what my family thinks too,like u wrote. However I wrote as per my thinking. I know it will not be accepted or agreeable to all. Thank you again.
     
  7. Anandchitra

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    Thank You dear Malathy
    My gifts arrived safely today. Packaged so well. I have got a lavender(I chose color) TShirt and an extremely beautiful sun shaped figurine. I have to find a spot to hang it. Gorgeous. I am very indebted to you all for this kind and touching gesture.:kiss
     
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    Induslady Administrator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Hello AC,

    I am glad that you liked the gift and Tee.

    We at IndusLadies look forward to your active participation in both the forums and the blogs.
     
  9. Tulasi

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    Hi Chitra,
    Congratulations on winning the contest! some how I missed this thread untill now.
    also happy to see the pics of both of you (happy couple)
    ps: you look cute and affectionate as your posts.
    Tulasi
     
  10. Anandchitra

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    Dear Tulasi
    Thanks so much. You are very sweet to say that of me instead of referring to my weight. Your kindness has really touched me Thanks.
     
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